Well, here's the thing, how can I continue to send him knowing that he is being sexualy abused. My x told me that himself. Also, my Aunt did witness him doing the drugs, my son and the other children were in the other room. I didn't mean that leagally he doesn't have visitation I meant since my son wasn't going there right now. I was not going to just quit sending him until I took him to the doctor and counselor and they told me I was neglecting him if I continued to send him knowing he was being abused. His step mother smacks him and no, I don't mean just spanking him and locks him in the bathroom when he has an accident and her son pinches his penis to the point where he comes home bruised. I even have a doctors report about that. They will not keep him supervised or away from this other kid, all they do is tell him not to do it. They will go in Walmart and leave the kids who are only 5, 5, and 4 in the car the whole time. As far as I'm concerned, it's an emergency and I honestly didn't know how else to go about keeping him safe. His dad does not even really want visitation. He told me himself he only does it to keep his wife from yelling at him and I'm sure if I asked him about it in court he would even tell the judge. I don't mean for it to sound like I think it's no big deal that I quit sending him. It makes me a nervous wreck, but I am really scared for my son's saftey. What else could I have done? I didn't know there was anything else I could file.