I wouldn't worry too much about that particular poster, Rosect.Rosect said:bradybunchmom, you are wrong about your opinion. The judge agreed that if my husband gets locked up I will be his foster mother. I'm already license as a foster parent in the state of CT, so the child would remain in my household. If her rights parental rights get terminated I can then adopt the child.
Thank You for updating us all. It is important for people to come back and share their experiences once court has finally happened- so people get a better understanding of the system.Rosect said:Well I haven't been on here much so I have decided to give ya an update. Three weeks ago we had a court date for custody of the child. Mom didn't show up so they gave her a continuence. Two weeks 1/2 ago we had the other court date and she didn't show up again and asked for another continuence. The judge didn't grant it to her and gave my husband physical custody of the child. He has been placed with us ever since. The judge asked the questions what would happen to the child if mom went with her threats and dcf told the judge that I would be the childs foster mother especially since I am one already for my lil brother the judge agree with it and had the child placed here. She was granted supervised visitations every other Monday but not has attended any yet. The great news is the child will remain in this house hold even if he was to be charged with statutory rape. As far as her getting her things together dcf told us she has a LONG way and her commiment date is coming up in which dcf will try to take her parental rights away from her other 2children that are in dcf custody. So that would make it hard for her to get my stepson back. DCF is really working with us so I feel pretty confident.
Rosect said:yeah I already know that if he was to go to jail and the child becomes my foster child I wouldn't have no legal rights to him. All the matter to us at the moment is that he is in a stable enviroment. DCF plans to take her to court soon to terminate her parental rights for her other children. She hasn't been complying at all with dcf request.