Friendly was just the right word
So they were here about an hour early, but called first. So that was just fine.
She came in the house (I was putting away the dishwasher dishes) through the front door walked into the kitchen with the BF stopping briefly to say hello to the little one and gave us an update on mom's case. Then ask some questions about where we worked, where we lived before here, how the little one had been since the last CPS visit to Mom's and ask about the police case against Mom and Mom's boyfriend.
20 minutes later she said okey doke well it was really good to meet you guys, just need to check your food situation and her sleeping arrangements and we are good to go. She opened the fridge and a package of Go-gurts fell out on her lol. She made a joke about flying food being a good sign, then checked out the little ones room, made some more comments about how pretty our house is and how it is bigger inside then it appears. Then left....
So all the laundry i did? unnessisary (well necessary i guess because it would have eventually been done) dusting, organizing of closets etc etc etc... yeah also didn't need to be done.
Even my cats behaved themselves, no cat squabbles, no hissing (I have a cat that hisses at strangers, doesn't attack but is not a fan of people he doesn't know in our house) yeah that was it.
So all in all she wasn't looking to find anything here, she did say that when they investigate a parent in a split parent situation they have to do a meet and greet at the other home every time. (makes sense)
Yeah so thats the end.
In the event that you are contacted for a follow up to a cps visit at your ex's home like we were my advice is to stay calm, clean the house (just so that you have piece of mind) and let them in. The atty told us this morning that if we refused the visit she would be back this afternoon with a warrant and it would be much worse