Parents threatening a relationship

[I'mTheFather]

Its not a RO it's a stalking order. Permanent. Extremely hard to get rid of nd it goes onto your record.

I apologize, I missed that.

As you've been told, you need an attorney. At least ask your mom to arrange an initial consult.

Your Perry Mason antics are going to work against you.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

If i thought i knew it all i wouldnt have asked this site for help ?? And she was on lockdown before that even happened. But other than that i agree with your logic . And some are the same age but there are adults in it as well. And none of the teens new how to start the court process of the lawsuit. And so simply because they dont like me they should be allowed to ban me from seeing her? the no contact orders are permanent even after she turns 18 unless you get an appeal from the court which i heard is veryhard to get

Had to edit this^^

 

[Ladyback1]

If i thought i knew it all i wouldnt have asked this site for help ?? And she was on lockdown before that even happened. But other than that i agree with your logic . And some are the same age but there are adults in it as well. And none of the teens new how to start the court process of the lawsuit. And so simply because they dont like me they should be allowed to ban me from seeing her? the no contact orders are permanent unless you get an appeal from the court which i heard is veryhard to get

*sigh*
No one needed to file a lawsuit regarding the threats---all they had to do was make a police report.

And YES, simply because they don't like you they can prohibit you and she from seeing each other. That is the way it is. Understand this: if you and she persist in pursuing a relationship against what her parents have said--she could end up being sent away to boarding school or similar. Far, far away...with better security than at her parents' home.

She doesn't get to go against her parents' rules/wishes at this age. Well, she can, but it could end up being really ugly for her (and you).

You need to understand this: Her parents can control her by pretty much any means until she reaches age of majority.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

I apologize, I missed that.

As you've been told, you need an attorney. At least ask your mom to arrange an initial consult.

Your Perry Mason antics are going to work against you.

I dont know how to reply to that. I dont have funds for an attorney and i dont know if there is legal aid for this type of case

 

[Zigner]

I dont know how to reply to that. I dont have funds for an attorney and i dont know if there is legal aid for this type of case

Then leave the girl alone. Simple.

 

[I'mTheFather]

I dont know how to reply to that. I dont have funds for an attorney and i dont know if there is legal aid for this type of case

http://oregonlawhelp.org/

http://www.osbar.org/public/ris/lowcostlegalhelp/legalaid.html

http://www.oregonlawcenter.org/

Doesn't hurt to call and ask.

Also, find a lawyer who will give a free initial consult.




Just to be clear, the only case you have is defending your actions to avoid the stalking order. All the other talk of lawsuits is pointless and unrealistic. And you cannot have witnesses testify that the parents were stalking too!

 

[Zigner]

http://oregonlawhelp.org/

http://www.osbar.org/public/ris/lowcostlegalhelp/legalaid.html

http://www.oregonlawcenter.org/

Doesn't hurt to call and ask.

Also, find a lawyer who will give a free initial consult.

His parents will need to be involved.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

http://oregonlawhelp.org/

http://www.osbar.org/public/ris/lowcostlegalhelp/legalaid.html

http://www.oregonlawcenter.org/

Doesn't hurt to call and ask.

Also, find a lawyer who will give a free initial consult.




Just to be clear, the only case you have is defending your actions to avoid the stalking order. All the other talk of lawsuits is pointless and unrealistic. And you cannot have witnesses testify that the parents were stalking too!

Thank you...

 

[Ladyback1]

If all they have done is given you a verbal "warning" to stay away or they will seek a stalking order....then you do not need an attorney at this point.

If you continue to pursue the relationship, and are served with legal papers...then you need an attorney.

No attorney is going to attempt to sue or engage in a legal battle that undermines the parents' right to be concerned or involved in their child's choice of relationship partner while the child is under the age of 18.

YOU HAVE NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO BE ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH THIS CHILD. SHE HAS NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO BE ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH YOU (another child)!
The sooner you come to terms with that, the better off you will be.

Please understand---I'm not saying the feelings you have for this girl (and vice versa) are not important and real. And this very well may be love. But, it's going to have to wait until she is 18...

 

[Zigner]

Thank you...

You're very welcome for ALL of the accurate information and advice you have received.

 

[Zigner]

If all they have done is given you a verbal "warning" to stay away or they will seek a stalking order....then you do not need an attorney at this point.

If you continue to pursue the relationship, and are served with legal papers...then you need an attorney.

No attorney is going to attempt to sue or engage in a legal battle that undermines the parents' right to be concerned or involved in their child's choice of relationship partner while the child is under the age of 18.

YOU HAVE NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO BE ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH THIS CHILD. SHE HAS NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO BE ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH YOU (another child)!
The sooner you come to terms with that, the better off you will be.

Please understand---I'm not saying the feelings you have for this girl (and vice versa) are not important and real. And this very well may be love. But, it's going to have to wait until she is 18...

To be clear, the "romantic" part doesn't matter. He has no legal right to be involved with her at ANY level, nor she with him.

 

[Ladyback1]

To be clear, the "romantic" part doesn't matter. He has no legal right to be involved with her at ANY level, nor she with him.

I stand corrected.....

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

To be clear, the "romantic" part doesn't matter. He has no legal right to be involved with her at ANY level, nor she with him.

Didnt know you needed a legal right to talk to someone... ?She has been of help and so has IamtheFather. I give credit where credit is due...

 

[Zigner]

Didnt know you needed a legal right to talk to someone... ?She has been of help and so has IamtheFather. I give credit where credit is due...

If you are told by her parents not to talk to her (as you have been) then you have no legal right. Your right to talk to her ends at the point that it interferes with her parents' right to parent her.

 

[IneedAnsweRs11]

If all they have done is given you a verbal "warning" to stay away or they will seek a stalking order....then you do not need an attorney at this point.

If you continue to pursue the relationship, and are served with legal papers...then you need an attorney.

No attorney is going to attempt to sue or engage in a legal battle that undermines the parents' right to be concerned or involved in their child's choice of relationship partner while the child is under the age of 18.

YOU HAVE NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO BE ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH THIS CHILD. SHE HAS NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO BE ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH YOU (another child)!
The sooner you come to terms with that, the better off you will be.

Please understand---I'm not saying the feelings you have for this girl (and vice versa) are not important and real. And this very well may be love. But, it's going to have to wait until she is 18...

If i do stay away from her until shes 18 and they still try to get the order what can i do to stop it ? so it simply doesnt go on my record since i agree to stay away from her?