That's not fair nor does it apply to my case. I fully DID see myself with him at the time of his help. I would not have excepted his help had I known things were going to end up this way. It was very very hard for me as well to end the relationship. I in no way pulled a "trick" and I do not appreciate you jumping to those untrue conclusions.Wow.
When I was 18, I turned down a gift of diamond earrings (so cutely tiny ) from a very nice boyfriend because I knew he cared more for me than I did for him, and that I was going to leave him behind to go to college in six months. I guess I could have taken them and worn them and kept them, but I knew that would be unkind and, essentially, wrong to do. I told him the truth and had to deal with the consequences.
I can't imagine pulling this trick. Sleep well, poster.