That’s my question as well, why would you put your sons name on you banking account??
The other question is, the checks he has outstanding are you required to pay them?? is your name also on that account?
Then I have to say to those who claim he may be lazy or claim parental laziness, you can do all the homework in the world, but if the child does not perform in school like in a test and you have no control over it, they still don’t make the grade, and that’s the child fault and the teachers, I know because I had one..... she did her homework cause I saw to it, then she got to school and flunked out, so I also held her back in the first grade... it was stated she was not "mature" enough to move on that year, and yes maturity has a lot to do with it.... then if they are a year behind in age that’s a double whammy....... she was classified with a learning disability in the 6th grade... so no it’s not always the parents FAULT..........
At age 19 I finally got her to graduate...... she only graduated at 19 because her BD is in March..... Not after Sept.... or July in some places.... and everyday was a challenge.....
as far as the money, tell him thats his inheritance and cut him off from there..... enough said... and chalk that up to a loss...... leave anything and everything else to a more deserving charity.... JMO...... and tell the child to sue his uncle for his money......