LegalBeagle
You are hysterical. Let's chalk up the difference of tack between you and I as lawyer and non-lawyer!
But, I do agree with your assessment. That little bit of info, as you put it, could land them back in court with potentially disastrous results. There are no guarantees when we walk into court and hand the right to make decisions for our lives over to the judge.
My real point was to try to get this CP, as well as others, to think of the consequences of their actions BEFORE they act.
On this, I do know of what I speak. I have yet to file the necessary support increase papers on my ex BECAUSE I could be opening a can of worms. I am lucky in that my ex is basically cheap and lazy, and will go to court as a LAST resort. But I do fear the day when I have to stand before a judge myself, because there are no guarantees.
Ultimately, I have chosen to believe that if I do the right thing, for the right reasons, remain fair and reasonable.....all will turn out for the best. So far, it has worked for me. In my case, I have had to put up with some unbelievable stuff over the past 9 years, but again, my choice. But I do know of SEVERAL cases where it wasn't a happy ending, where the CP did everything right, put up with as much and more than I did and still lost.
Just wanted it posted that I am not some Pollyanna-type.