At what age can a child make the decision where to live?

[dannysmyboy]

And generally, the wishes of an 8yo will not be given a great deal of weight.

Also, judges do not like to separate children....

 

[ricourt30]

Of course NOW dad is a druggie. But it's acceptable to leave the boy with him...

You have your opinions, your entitled to them. Again you don't know the whole story and it is my sons PaPa who really takes care of him, he wants to be there for his PaPa. I understand. Dad is hardly around.

 

[ricourt30]

Also, judges do not like to separate children....

I know, so I should just leave the situation alone? She is in a great school and loves it.

 

[CJane]

I know, so I should just leave the situation alone? She is in a great school and loves it.

Yes. Leave her and her brother with a supposed druggie because PaPa (whom I assume is the grandfather) actually provides their care.

 

[ricourt30]

Yes. Leave her and her brother with a supposed druggie because PaPa (whom I assume is the grandfather) actually provides their care.

Ok enough of your sarcisim. I left him because that is what he is. Maybe he has gotten help, who knows. I hope he has or does. I know their in good hands with their grandfather.

 

[ricourt30]

Also, judges do not like to separate children....

I agree with you on that, Stepmothers are mothers too!

 

[stealth2]

Ok enough of your sarcisim. I left him because that is what he is. Maybe he has gotten help, who knows. I hope he has or does. I know their in good hands with their grandfather.

This gets better all the time. You left him because he's a druggie, yet you left your kids with him cause it was simpler and more comfortable (for them, presumably)? Wow.

 

[CJane]

This gets better all the time. You left him because he's a druggie, yet you left your kids with him cause it was simpler and more comfortable (for them, presumably)? Wow.

HEY! Enough of your sarcasm. You clearly don't have all the info and should stop being so judgemental.

 

[ricourt30]

This gets better all the time. You left him because he's a druggie, yet you left your kids with him cause it was simpler and more comfortable (for them, presumably)? Wow.

you are something, and yeah you don't know the whole story. They are living with their PaPa who is a very good man he can't help his son is a butt.

 

[stealth2]

yeah you don't know the whole story.

That's right - because apparently it hasn't been important enough for you to explain it. So I suggest you hie yourself off to a local attorney and tell it to him - the WHOLE story.

 

[stealth2]

Oh wait - is the fact that you're not yet divorced and apparently have a boyfriend one of the reasons you decided to keep things "calm and comfortable"? You keep his drug use quiet, and he keeps your adultery quiet?

 

[CJane]

Oh wait - is the fact that you're not yet divorced and apparently have a boyfriend one of the reasons you decided to keep things "calm and comfortable"? You keep his drug use quiet, and he keeps your adultery quiet?

You got some Splainin to do.

 

[stealth2]

https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?p=1173162#post1173162

 

[ricourt30]

Lay off

https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?p=1173162#post1173162

I don't have to explain anything to you two judgemenatl people, except my attorney and I have one now. He says everything is fine and now a days you have to have video tape and such. It's very hard to prove. But anyway i found a couple of nice people on here and you two are not they. I think you two should be kicked off here for making people feel like crap, oh wait you MUST be an attorney (Defense). Thanks anyway.

 

[ricourt30]

You got some Splainin to do.

It isn't adultery if your not having sex.