here's a novel idea: make the children do chores so they understand responsibility. Make the children do chores so that they learn that some times it's necessary to do the crappiest jobs in order to have some semblance of normal.What do you mean Trolldar?
I don't like to cut grass or clean the kids rooms so I pay someone to do it. Evidently she doesn't like to do it so she makes the kids and my ex do it.
OH and one more: quit spending money on things that the kids could be doing for themselves, and then you can stop worrying about collect arrears!
Yep, you must be a troll.