I agree, it IS a lot of driving. However, he moved to this other town after we broke up which is why he was given all of the driving. He also works in my city, not the town he lives in, so he drives this distance pretty much every day. And some days that he has our younger son he stays in the city while our older son is in school so he isnt driving it multiple times all the time. He has also considered moving about 2.5 hrs away from my city for work, but then got a job in my city, so I guess he is used to, or not bothered by, the driving as he doesnt really complain, esp since I sometimes do some of the driving.We're both off a little; thanks for the correction. The first trip would be to the house (60 minutes), the 2nd to the school (100 minutes), the third to drop them off, back at home (60 minutes).
Oh, and on the days where he would pick up my younger son @ home & then my older son @ school, he would pick up my son @ 3:15 and then stay here in the city to take them to the park, other fun places, and then for dinner. So that would cut down on the driving. He's done this before on weeks where he cant take them but still wants to see spend a little time with them, so I think it would work out if this was a permanent thing.
I dont know, if anyone else has any other suggestions, other than him only being able to take the kids on weekends that he is off (b/c that would cut down on how much he sees them & I didnt really want to do that if possible) I am definetly open to suggestions.
Thanks!