What is the name of your state?TN
Is there anything that can be done when the CP has to take the children to meet with the NCP for parental sharing times but the NCP just drops them off at his mother's home for the entire visitation time? I understand this is his time to bond with the children and I assume this is the reason for the visits there but how can it be considered as such when he is not there? He uses this time to leave OUR 2 children there along with his other son from his new wife.
Before you throw stones understand that I do not wish that the other family members not have contact or visits from our children but I do not see how I am now ordered to share parenting time with someone who is not their parent. Also I am worried for the children because this woman is not exactly what you would consider "fit" to take care of children. This woman even allows my 6 yr old daughter change her baby brothers diaper all the time and she is also allowed to lay the baby down with her and left to sleep with him. This may sound petti but I just have concerns for the baby such as he should have a regular baby bed so that my daughter would not roll over on him or accidently sufficate him in the middle of the night. My daughter loves babies and she just wants to help but she is only 6 and does not see the danger it may lead to in doing so and obviously neither do they know nor care.
Any advise on how I could handle the situation as it is?
** One more question, My ex refusses to sign papers for my son to go to speech therapy. We are supposed to have joint decisions on this but could I go ahead and do so without his signature or consent?
Is there anything that can be done when the CP has to take the children to meet with the NCP for parental sharing times but the NCP just drops them off at his mother's home for the entire visitation time? I understand this is his time to bond with the children and I assume this is the reason for the visits there but how can it be considered as such when he is not there? He uses this time to leave OUR 2 children there along with his other son from his new wife.
Before you throw stones understand that I do not wish that the other family members not have contact or visits from our children but I do not see how I am now ordered to share parenting time with someone who is not their parent. Also I am worried for the children because this woman is not exactly what you would consider "fit" to take care of children. This woman even allows my 6 yr old daughter change her baby brothers diaper all the time and she is also allowed to lay the baby down with her and left to sleep with him. This may sound petti but I just have concerns for the baby such as he should have a regular baby bed so that my daughter would not roll over on him or accidently sufficate him in the middle of the night. My daughter loves babies and she just wants to help but she is only 6 and does not see the danger it may lead to in doing so and obviously neither do they know nor care.
Any advise on how I could handle the situation as it is?
** One more question, My ex refusses to sign papers for my son to go to speech therapy. We are supposed to have joint decisions on this but could I go ahead and do so without his signature or consent?
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