child support awarded to noncustodial parent

[stealth2]

She also wrote this in a later post:

Stealth 2,,
In reply to your response which I do thank you for taking the time to do. BUT never in my thread did I mention my daughter or them being married.

So who knows? Either way, she is a legal stranger to dad and his child. As is OP's daughter.

 

[Zigner]

She referred to him as her son-in-law in the first post:

The OP is the mother of the current wife of the man in question. The child in question is the OP's step-grandchild.

Hope that clears up the "son-in-law" part

 

[Just Blue]

The OP is the mother of the current wife of the man in question. The child in question is the OP's step-grandchild.

Hope that clears up the "son-in-law" part

No...Not really. OP refers to childs father as SIL...but also said:

BUT never in my thread did I mention my daughter or them being married.

A bit confusing...
But as stealth stated...It really doesn't matter as this is none of her legal business.

 

[Zigner]

No...Not really. OP refers to childs father as SIL...but also said:
A bit confusing...
But as stealth stated...It really doesn't matter as this is none of her legal business.

Gotcha - and agreed.

 

[Just Blue]

Px Hx.....Very interesting.

 

[fighting4mykid]

Thank you to all who've taken the time to reply to this thread.. although more was spent on if my daughter is married, ha,, i kinda thought it would of been assumed when i said son in law 2 times in original post. Yes i didnt mention my daughter because its between my son in law and the previous girlfriend, BUT it does effect my daughter her husband and there home.
The only reason i've posted is to try and gather as much information to help them as they have asked.
Stealth 2,, i'm going to assume you dont have children from your replies, to say my daughter is wrong for taking over the mother role to her stepdaughter, my only words are wow!! If the bio mom wants to be a mom she has every opportunity to do so BUT DOESN'T .
I applaud my daughter for stepping into a role where she has no obligation to do so. You had no obligation to reply to this thread, but you did,. So i ask stealth 2 , when you say its not my fight, it also isnt yours either. But when i came onto this forum for advice you replied ,why am i wrong for trying to help when i was asked, as when i asked, you replied?
This isnt about me or you,, its about doing the right thing for a 4yr old little girl and an absent mother taking advantage of the system.
I do want to update on this post as if theres anyone else who might be going thru the same situation. An attorney had to be retrained, the bio mom was reported for fraud and child support order has a hold. They also have given the bio mom a visitation schedule, which is up to her if she wants the visit. With all that just said my son in law did have to show proof that they are the sole physical provider of the child, done by dr apt, pictures lease agreement and child care records. We live in idaho & every states requirements are different ,I'm assuming . But to anyone who might be going through the same thing, its the child and thier stability that is most important IMO, and if that is always put first, the truth will always reveal itself.

 

[Zigner]

Thank you to all who've taken the time to reply to this thread.. although more was spent on if my daughter is married, ha,, i kinda thought it would of been assumed when i said son in law 2 times in original post. Yes i didnt mention my daughter because its between my son in law and the previous girlfriend, BUT it does effect my daughter her husband and there home.
The only reason i've posted is to try and gather as much information to help them as they have asked.
Stealth 2,, i'm going to assume you dont have children from your replies, to say my daughter is wrong for taking over the mother role to her stepdaughter, my only words are wow!! If the bio mom wants to be a mom she has every opportunity to do so BUT DOESN'T .
I applaud my daughter for stepping into a role where she has no obligation to do so. You had no obligation to reply to this thread, but you did,. So i ask stealth 2 , when you say its not my fight, it also isnt yours either. But when i came onto this forum for advice you replied ,why am i wrong for trying to help when i was asked, as when i asked, you replied?
This isnt about me or you,, its about doing the right thing for a 4yr old little girl and an absent mother taking advantage of the system.
I do want to update on this post as if theres anyone else who might be going thru the same situation. An attorney had to be retrained, the bio mom was reported for fraud and child support order has a hold. They also have given the bio mom a visitation schedule, which is up to her if she wants the visit. With all that just said my son in law did have to show proof that they are the sole physical provider of the child, done by dr apt, pictures lease agreement and child care records. We live in idaho & every states requirements are different ,I'm assuming . But to anyone who might be going through the same thing, its the child and thier stability that is most important IMO, and if that is always put first, the truth will always reveal itself.

So you're a FOURTH PARTY? (As opposed to a third party)

 

[BL]

Thank you to all who've taken the time to reply to this thread.. although more was spent on if my daughter is married, ha,, i kinda thought it would of been assumed when i said son in law 2 times in original post. Yes i didnt mention my daughter because its between my son in law and the previous girlfriend, BUT it does effect my daughter her husband and there home.
The only reason i've posted is to try and gather as much information to help them as they have asked.
Stealth 2,, i'm going to assume you dont have children from your replies, to say my daughter is wrong for taking over the mother role to her stepdaughter, my only words are wow!! If the bio mom wants to be a mom she has every opportunity to do so BUT DOESN'T .
I applaud my daughter for stepping into a role where she has no obligation to do so. You had no obligation to reply to this thread, but you did,. So i ask stealth 2 , when you say its not my fight, it also isnt yours either. But when i came onto this forum for advice you replied ,why am i wrong for trying to help when i was asked, as when i asked, you replied?
This isnt about me or you,, its about doing the right thing for a 4yr old little girl and an absent mother taking advantage of the system.
I do want to update on this post as if theres anyone else who might be going thru the same situation. An attorney had to be retrained, the bio mom was reported for fraud and child support order has a hold. They also have given the bio mom a visitation schedule, which is up to her if she wants the visit. With all that just said my son in law did have to show proof that they are the sole physical provider of the child, done by dr apt, pictures lease agreement and child care records. We live in idaho & every states requirements are different ,I'm assuming . But to anyone who might be going through the same thing, its the child and thier stability that is most important IMO, and if that is always put first, the truth will always reveal itself.

Again n Again ,no paracraps. Didn't we learn that by the 8th Grade ?

 

[Proserpina]

Thank you to all who've taken the time to reply to this thread.. although more was spent on if my daughter is married, ha,, i kinda thought it would of been assumed when i said son in law 2 times in original post. Yes i didnt mention my daughter because its between my son in law and the previous girlfriend, BUT it does effect my daughter her husband and there home.
The only reason i've posted is to try and gather as much information to help them as they have asked.
Stealth 2,, i'm going to assume you dont have children from your replies, to say my daughter is wrong for taking over the mother role to her stepdaughter, my only words are wow!! If the bio mom wants to be a mom she has every opportunity to do so BUT DOESN'T .
I applaud my daughter for stepping into a role where she has no obligation to do so. You had no obligation to reply to this thread, but you did,. So i ask stealth 2 , when you say its not my fight, it also isnt yours either. But when i came onto this forum for advice you replied ,why am i wrong for trying to help when i was asked, as when i asked, you replied?
This isnt about me or you,, its about doing the right thing for a 4yr old little girl and an absent mother taking advantage of the system.
I do want to update on this post as if theres anyone else who might be going thru the same situation. An attorney had to be retrained, the bio mom was reported for fraud and child support order has a hold. They also have given the bio mom a visitation schedule, which is up to her if she wants the visit. With all that just said my son in law did have to show proof that they are the sole physical provider of the child, done by dr apt, pictures lease agreement and child care records. We live in idaho & every states requirements are different ,I'm assuming . But to anyone who might be going through the same thing, its the child and thier stability that is most important IMO, and if that is always put first, the truth will always reveal itself.

I'm terribly sorry, but I missed the part where Mom has to abide by what you think a mother should be.

Oh...wait..

 

[Proserpina]

Thank you to all who've taken the time to reply to this thread.. although more was spent on if my daughter is married, ha,, i kinda thought it would of been assumed when i said son in law 2 times in original post. Yes i didnt mention my daughter because its between my son in law and the previous girlfriend, BUT it does effect my daughter her husband and there home.
The only reason i've posted is to try and gather as much information to help them as they have asked.
Stealth 2,, i'm going to assume you dont have children from your replies, to say my daughter is wrong for taking over the mother role to her stepdaughter, my only words are wow!! If the bio mom wants to be a mom she has every opportunity to do so BUT DOESN'T .
I applaud my daughter for stepping into a role where she has no obligation to do so. You had no obligation to reply to this thread, but you did,. So i ask stealth 2 , when you say its not my fight, it also isnt yours either. But when i came onto this forum for advice you replied ,why am i wrong for trying to help when i was asked, as when i asked, you replied?
This isnt about me or you,, its about doing the right thing for a 4yr old little girl and an absent mother taking advantage of the system.
I do want to update on this post as if theres anyone else who might be going thru the same situation. An attorney had to be retrained, the bio mom was reported for fraud and child support order has a hold. They also have given the bio mom a visitation schedule, which is up to her if she wants the visit. With all that just said my son in law did have to show proof that they are the sole physical provider of the child, done by dr apt, pictures lease agreement and child care records. We live in idaho & every states requirements are different ,I'm assuming . But to anyone who might be going through the same thing, its the child and thier stability that is most important IMO, and if that is always put first, the truth will always reveal itself.

And all of this happened within 10 days, including 2 weekends.

Gosh what clever little things you are!

Fabulous purveyors of potatoes though, I must say.

 

[BL]

I'm terribly sorry, but I missed the part where Mom has to abide by what you think a mother should be.

Oh...wait..

My Mom. Had enough but later yrs visited.

She is someone who loves
She is someone who cares
She protects, nurtures, and keeps a
person smiling.
She is the symbol of excellence,
intelligence and elegance.
Her words will pierce you like an arrow
when you've done wrong
Other times they'll flow from her mouth
with joy and compliments.
She shows that life's brutal but that
she's a shelter from the storm where you
can always run to and be free.
If there ever was or ever will be a
woman like this her name is Mom

Source: http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/all-that-a-mom-should-be#ixzz39AZkqgcG
Family Friend Poems

 

[Silverplum]

Reading comprehension is essential. Try re-reading several times. Try to understand what advisers write, as opposed to what you think was written.

 

[Ohiogal]

Thank you to all who've taken the time to reply to this thread.. although more was spent on if my daughter is married, ha,, i kinda thought it would of been assumed when i said son in law 2 times in original post. Yes i didnt mention my daughter because its between my son in law and the previous girlfriend, BUT it does effect my daughter her husband and there home.
The only reason i've posted is to try and gather as much information to help them as they have asked.
Stealth 2,, i'm going to assume you dont have children from your replies, to say my daughter is wrong for taking over the mother role to her stepdaughter, my only words are wow!! If the bio mom wants to be a mom she has every opportunity to do so BUT DOESN'T .
I applaud my daughter for stepping into a role where she has no obligation to do so. You had no obligation to reply to this thread, but you did,. So i ask stealth 2 , when you say its not my fight, it also isnt yours either. But when i came onto this forum for advice you replied ,why am i wrong for trying to help when i was asked, as when i asked, you replied?
This isnt about me or you,, its about doing the right thing for a 4yr old little girl and an absent mother taking advantage of the system.
I do want to update on this post as if theres anyone else who might be going thru the same situation. An attorney had to be retrained, the bio mom was reported for fraud and child support order has a hold. They also have given the bio mom a visitation schedule, which is up to her if she wants the visit. With all that just said my son in law did have to show proof that they are the sole physical provider of the child, done by dr apt, pictures lease agreement and child care records. We live in idaho & every states requirements are different ,I'm assuming . But to anyone who might be going through the same thing, its the child and thier stability that is most important IMO, and if that is always put first, the truth will always reveal itself.

You are so far out of line it is not funny. Your daughter is NOT this child's mother. YOU have no business butting in and overstepping. An attorney has been retrained? Really? Learn to communicate properly.

It is NOT the child's BIO MOM. It is the child's MOTHER. Try to show some respect you overstepping twit. Quit insulting those who tried to help you. Stealth was NOT out of line but you were and I will call you on it though Stealth doesn't need me to defend her. You however need to learn proper manners, respect and understand that your daughter has NO BUSINESS in this situation nor do you.

 

[Ohiogal]

So you're a FOURTH PARTY? (As opposed to a third party)

She is no party but an ignorant malcontent.

 

[Silverplum]

I'm a successful stepparent, and I assure you that you are going about this in the wrong manner. So's your daughter.