My 20 year old daughter has been having serious health issues. She’s already on spectrum, and now she’s having cardiac, seizure and other issues that her doctors feel indicate a possible brain tumor. Several of her doctors refuse to let me go back with her, even when she gets a lot of anxiety and asks them to let me be in the room, repeatedly. They load her up with info and tests she needs, and by the time she gets back to the waiting room to tell me, she can’t remember what all they said. It’s getting very frustrating. Last visit, she finally started tearing up and saying she really just wanted her mom before they finally caved and let me back. I do NOT want to strip her of her right to make her own health decisions, but I do need to know what I can do to force the doctors and staff to allow me to be included in her visits so I can at least help her manage her meds and appointments. Right now, they’re too busy throwing it in my face that she’s an adult to care that she’s an adult that is on spectrum, struggling, dealing with tumor side effects, and that she’s the one asking for me. What do I do?