No, you were given advice, just not the advice you wanted to hear, so you thought by breaking it up you might get the answer you wanted and sneak it by someone here but even if you did, which you didn't, in real life it will all catch up to you.
So, first of all you were under the influence and driving so poorly that you were stopped and cited, this was something you did willfully and knowing that it was against the law and that not only was it unsafe to do so, but that a criminal record could affect your stay ans a guest in our country.
In a post 9/11 world there are many more restrictions or enforcements. Recently a mother and her two US born children were deported after living a productive life here, worked and never any trouble with the law, she had fled her country due to domestic violence but was unable to gain refugee status.
Why would they keep you here when you knowingly break the law driving under the influence, then knowingly drive without you license because it was suspended and have the bad luck to be in an accident caused by someone else, if you had not been driving you would not have been hit, right? If you had gone through the correct process to reenstate your license you would not be in a place where you have to write us about how to save your green card? You made your own trouble.
I would rather have that mother and her two children here than 1 scofflaw like you. I won;t even ask if you had insurance.