It's true, not matter what advice I receive here, ultimately the decision will be made by me. And although I may only be receiving criticism, I do appreciate all the responses.
He and I met through a friend of mine. He and I have spent every night together since we met, only separating for work. I originally did not know that he was married. And since I found out, I honestly don't beleive that he deserves either his wife nor myself. But my feelings for him have not changed. We spend our time getting to know each other and falling even deeper in love. I know that most of you will not be able to understand the feelings I have for him... and you have no sense of my character other than my weighing this moving option. And most of you would have shot the offer down from the beginnig. I understand that. All I ask is that instead of only criticism, you present points to ponder, questions I ahould be asking myself, hypothetical outcomes, and the like....
My mind is not made, and I am struggling with the decision... I know it isn't something that happens everyday, and I never imagined I would be in this position...