CJane
Senior Member
Sometimes, Casa, I swear we have the SAME nuttyX. Mine emailed me today re: our upcoming quarterly meeting - he's decided that I MUST return the exact same clothes to his house that the children arrive at my house in. This, regardless of the fact that I asked repeatedly that if they arrive at his house in appropriate school clothes (as they do since he picks them up FROM SCHOOL) that they come home in the same. He insisted that as long as they arrived in shorts and came home in shorts, I was being petty.casa said:I started shopping resale/Thrift because of the expense of keeping clothing...didn't help because even that gets expensive when it's 2 or 3 outfits per week! Not only that, my nuttyX then started complaining she was coming in 'play' clothes and not 'nice' clothes. Eventually this issue was brought up in court by my X. I simply said I always provided clothes and they didn't return- so I compromised by buying inexpensive clothes & yet they weren't good enough...and still weren't returned. The judge ordered the nuttyX to provide his own clothing for visitation, regardless of child support. If you knew my X, this was poetic Justice
NOW, he's upset because he 'can't afford winter clothes' with a baby on the way, and feels that since they get tons of clothes from my relatives as hand-me-downs, that I should bring 1/2 of their wardrobe with me to the meeting.