What is the name of your state? ILLINOIS
My daughter is now 8 and she has my last name because her father wanted nothing to do with her and would not give her his name. I went for child support when my daughter was 1yr. Her father became very angry and took me to court and tried to get joint physical so he wouldn't have to pay and he didn't even know her. He did not get it. I have sole custody of my daughter. He got very little visitation. He harassed me telling me he was going to kill me, tried to get me to sell my daughter to people he knows, told me his friends were going to rape and kill me, etc. He continued to harass me till I dropped the child support. He told me I will leave you and your daughter alone if you drop the child support and I'll sign away my visitation. We did that and now we live in Illinois, he lives in California. It was just a horrible experience. I need my child support but want to know if anyone knows how hard it would be for him to get his visitation back and would he have to come to Illinois to fight me for it? In the beginning I tried so hard to make the visitation work for my daughter's sake even though it shattered my heart but he made it impossible.
I just tried to get him to change her medical and dental that he promised to keep her on by leaving a message through his work and his answer was we'll have to go through our attorneys. He won't even do anything for his daughter. It would be so simple for him to just change it so she could use it out of state but he just wants to harass me.
I had to get a restraining order on him and meet him at the police dept. for him to pick up and drop off my daughter, but on the days this dept. office was closed he would not show up and say it was me who didn't show up. These are just a few examples of what he does. So he does not know my daughter at all and she doesn't even ask about him.
It has been 7 yrs. sense he signed away his visitation and as I said I need to know HOW EASY it would be for him to get the VISITATION BACK and would he have to COME TO ILLINOIS FIGHT me for it. He does not know where I live.
Need an answer fast.
Pashae2
My daughter is now 8 and she has my last name because her father wanted nothing to do with her and would not give her his name. I went for child support when my daughter was 1yr. Her father became very angry and took me to court and tried to get joint physical so he wouldn't have to pay and he didn't even know her. He did not get it. I have sole custody of my daughter. He got very little visitation. He harassed me telling me he was going to kill me, tried to get me to sell my daughter to people he knows, told me his friends were going to rape and kill me, etc. He continued to harass me till I dropped the child support. He told me I will leave you and your daughter alone if you drop the child support and I'll sign away my visitation. We did that and now we live in Illinois, he lives in California. It was just a horrible experience. I need my child support but want to know if anyone knows how hard it would be for him to get his visitation back and would he have to come to Illinois to fight me for it? In the beginning I tried so hard to make the visitation work for my daughter's sake even though it shattered my heart but he made it impossible.
I just tried to get him to change her medical and dental that he promised to keep her on by leaving a message through his work and his answer was we'll have to go through our attorneys. He won't even do anything for his daughter. It would be so simple for him to just change it so she could use it out of state but he just wants to harass me.
I had to get a restraining order on him and meet him at the police dept. for him to pick up and drop off my daughter, but on the days this dept. office was closed he would not show up and say it was me who didn't show up. These are just a few examples of what he does. So he does not know my daughter at all and she doesn't even ask about him.
It has been 7 yrs. sense he signed away his visitation and as I said I need to know HOW EASY it would be for him to get the VISITATION BACK and would he have to COME TO ILLINOIS FIGHT me for it. He does not know where I live.
Need an answer fast.
Pashae2