BubblyBrunette
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Look! We get it, you're a wonderful person and provide all this loving support for these poor kids.Regarding this comment... I am the one that gives them the hugs and attention they need. I am the one that will sit and do crafts with them for hours and go out and play with them. Not saying that their dad doesn't because he does. If you all want to make it sound like I am ruining these children then you should be asking questions not making accusations. Dad and I are the ones that let them act like kids instead of grown ups in little bodies. They have structure at my house and know what is expected of them. They know that they aren't going to get yelled at or cussed at or told to shut up because their voice is annoying which are all things I have personally heard their mother say and do. Before you all continue to act as though I am personally ruining their lives maybe some of you should consider that we are the primary source of the love and compassion they receive. I am not standing here on a soapbox spouting off what I think will make me feel better about what we do. Anything that I say the mom says to the kids that I may not have heard straight out of her mouth has come from the 15 year old who is still shocked that he doesn't get yelled at for telling an adult that he needs deodorant or shampoo because that is the response he normally receives from his mother. Last summer when they came to stay with us I was the one that let them know it was ok to change their socks everyday, that they would have clean clothes. Someone has missed the point here that all these things they should know by their ages weren't necessarily something they would know or do on their own. Its in the last two years that they have seen that there is another way to live.
I am being attacked for trying to help kids out here and y'all are cussing me out because you don't like my living situation! Most of you have missed the point. I'll leave now and I hope y'all have wonderful lives.
What this site is for is for free legal advice that you can choose to either take or ignore. It's not for these people to agree at what a wonderful person you are and give you pats on the back for being so.
They've let you know that in the situation that your boyfriend is in that he can be in trouble. Instead of sitting here defending yourself why don't you move along and sit down with your boyfriend and figure out what your plan is going to be so that he doesn't end up in a worse situation.