Why in the world would we take HER back to court because my ex is lying about HIS income? She pays more per child for her children now than my ex does! Why would we want to, without question, ruin a perfectly good relationship with her because MY EX is an a-hole? How stupid is that?
You say you take care of your step kids but is it in child support? Or do you hide your husbands income from his ex too because you are afraid SHE will get the money? We don't "blow" the child support on fun and games. We can't account for every penny but you can bet your bottom dollar we spend out more than we get on the kids.
And for the record I happen to know my ex doesn't work his butt off but my husband and I do! My husband takes every minute of overtime offered to him and I have 2 side jobs just so we can have the extra money to take my son to an amusement park because his dad won't do it because the wife doesn't like to go! And God forbid my son need braces or anything else along that line, he refuses to pay for the glasses he has to have right now! HE doesn't understand why he needs a new pair after a year!!!!!! College? Yeah, right! When he turns 16 and can drive? A car? Insurance? The won't provide a dime of help in anything of those areas. I'm not asking for my ex to provide "the most" for his son, I want him to pay what is FAIR and his $27 a week doesn't come close. And his ZERO dollars to pay HIS HALF of pharmacy bills, school trips, school supplies obviously wont' even buy me a freak'n cup of coffee!
You act like I'm expecting my ex to live in the streets so I can have all his money. WRONG. I want what he is capable of paying WITHOUT LYING ABOUT IT!. That is called cheating the system. He's also cheating the IRS which is against the law.