you know what, i have taken responsibility for raising my child.
You're supposed to. Congratulations. (but I thought you were done "defending" yourself)
and its not my benefits i'm concerned about.
You've sure made than an issue a time or 2 or 3 or 4
its the fact that my son will have a father when he needs one.
Your son has a father. Oh... what do you think those people who's fathers are dead do?
i fully plan on getting a divorce before we go into the custody thing.
Duh... you HAVE to.
and for your information, i'm not living with my fiance hence me in nc and him in wa
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and for your information... cohabitation includes AFTER the divorce, but before the marriage.. genius
and also my ex does have a criminal record because he was just in jail last week for cocaine possession and he's was in jail in june for grand theft auto.
It also said
INCLUDING VIOLENCE. Last I checked, stealing a car or having cocaine didn't require violence. They're both rather low level crimes.
so yeah, i can prove that he is an unfit parent and incapable of raising a child.
give me a few minutes and I can prove the same about you.
and my fiance will be out of the navy in a year and a half.
Good for him. What's that got to do with you?
you know how long he will be out to sea during that time? 6 months.
The better question is do YOU know how long he's going to be out to sea? Apparently you don't know that the military has this silly habit of keeping people out longer than they tell you.
the other time, he will be like every other husband.
You mean like your CURRENT husband??? Remember, you picked that one too.
excepts his job will be on the ship and then he gets to come home like every other husband and spend time with his family.
Did this lady just fall off the turnip truck or do the Cleavers live next door to her?
but as i've said numerous times none of that's the issue
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Actually, I thought that WAS the issue.
i've got the answer i need.
You got the answer, but did you READ, UNDERSTAND and APPLY the information... correctly? The answer? Nope.
thank you for all of your wonderful advice.
You're quite welcome.
and by the way, how dare any of you tell me my next marraige isn't going to work because you know nothing of my current relationship.
No, but I do know the statistics of subsequent marriages, especially those when they are done in haste and when one party is daddy shopping.
and obviously you guys are on here because you have legal issues yourself and i hope they all work out for you.
Actually, most of us are here because we have the answers to your idiotic questions. I for one work in the courtroom so I have a bunch of knowledge you'd like to have. I'm also here now because I'm on vacation for the rest of the week and you've provided a good laugh.
Come back after that divorce, but CJane made a great point. Why is loverboy so big on sending gifts, but can't send you a few hundred bucks for that divorce you're waiting on???
Maybe you consider yourself his fiance, but he doesn't consider himself yours....