milspecgirl
Senior Member
can you PROVE he hates the younger child and has he threatened the child in any way?
What you don't understand is that parents every day live with restraining orders against the other parent of their children. Guess what- that does NOT automatically extend to the kids. Unless you can PROVE dad is a danger to them. Your saying so and your feelings mean NOTHING to a court.
We all know what it's like to have a parent who could care less, a parent who abuses their child, a parent who uses their child for personal gain, a parent who uses a child only as a way to get to the other parent. However- a JUDGE is going to grant him a chance to be a parent if he asks for it. That is his constitutional right - until you can LEGALLY PROVE HE IS A DANGER TO THE CHILDREN. If you did not want to deal with him, you should not have had his children out of wedlock or gotten a divorce (not sure which is the case).
A judge WILL take your children and give them to the father if you show the judge that you are completely disregarding their rulings and the law.
case closed..
What you don't understand is that parents every day live with restraining orders against the other parent of their children. Guess what- that does NOT automatically extend to the kids. Unless you can PROVE dad is a danger to them. Your saying so and your feelings mean NOTHING to a court.
We all know what it's like to have a parent who could care less, a parent who abuses their child, a parent who uses their child for personal gain, a parent who uses a child only as a way to get to the other parent. However- a JUDGE is going to grant him a chance to be a parent if he asks for it. That is his constitutional right - until you can LEGALLY PROVE HE IS A DANGER TO THE CHILDREN. If you did not want to deal with him, you should not have had his children out of wedlock or gotten a divorce (not sure which is the case).
A judge WILL take your children and give them to the father if you show the judge that you are completely disregarding their rulings and the law.
case closed..