mistoffolees
Senior Member
Maybe I'm unusual, but if my child's other parent wanted to talk with them - even after being absent for a lot of time, I would have done something about it. Probably invited them to meet the child in my home and have supervised visitation for a while, but I would not have thrown the letter away.Either way, Mom should have addressed the contact from Dad. Before I got my "legal education" (the hard way, not in school), I would have thrown it away too. As you said, most laymen would have. But "everyone else would have done it" isn't a valid defense, and Mom is stuck dealing with this all at once now instead of having some lead time. She only hurt herself.
And, as you point out, that's not a defense, anyway.
Maybe I'm overly cautious, but something strikes me as being incomplete in this story. While OP says that we've gotten the entire store, I've been here long enough to doubt it.As I said before, I honestly don't see Mom getting any punishment for contempt at this point, but the other hardships (having to explain the Dad situation to daughter, having to reintegrate Dad into her life) will be punishment enough.
So, I would specifically add a qualifier that most people subconsciously add - assuming that we're getting the full story from OP, then it is unlikely that there will be significant penalties for contempt (if any at all).