What is the name of your state? Vt.. Would these actions be considered parental alienation and be grounds for a change in PR & R?
1. Custodial parent never informs other parent of any medical, educational changes or needs of child. Example: child has IEP for two years and custodial parent "never" informed other parent.
2. Stepparent has signed all school records for last 4 years as guardian/mother and that is why other parent never received copies of school reports. Even when calling school and cp.
3. Stepmom wants my child to call her "mom", and has teachers believing her to be the "mom".
4. Custodial parent tells non custodial parent that it is in the best interests of child to do sports even if on their time, and tells ncp that they are mistreating the child if does not let child go.
5. Informs ncp that it is up to the child if she/he wants to attend. If ncp says no then it is abusive to the child whom wants to play.
6. If ncp makes promise to take a child somewhere and cannot then cp screams at ncp in front of child that ncp lies to child all the time by breaking promises. (I did make a promise to take my child to 6 flags, when time came, ended up with another sick child could not go).
5. Custodial parent has changed the schedule so much to accomodate the childs sporting events, visitation is constantly interfered. Stepmom picks up for events if dad at work.
I feel alienated and want more involvement in my son's life. It is hard for me to go to his sporting events since I have an autistic son at home then, and 2 young children. My autistic son reacts poorly in crowds and loud noisy events. Do I have any chance to have some say in education and medical needs due to the above situations to win? And can I demand going back to what the court order is for visitation even though after 3 years I have lost time due to this? Thanks, Faith
1. Custodial parent never informs other parent of any medical, educational changes or needs of child. Example: child has IEP for two years and custodial parent "never" informed other parent.
2. Stepparent has signed all school records for last 4 years as guardian/mother and that is why other parent never received copies of school reports. Even when calling school and cp.
3. Stepmom wants my child to call her "mom", and has teachers believing her to be the "mom".
4. Custodial parent tells non custodial parent that it is in the best interests of child to do sports even if on their time, and tells ncp that they are mistreating the child if does not let child go.
5. Informs ncp that it is up to the child if she/he wants to attend. If ncp says no then it is abusive to the child whom wants to play.
6. If ncp makes promise to take a child somewhere and cannot then cp screams at ncp in front of child that ncp lies to child all the time by breaking promises. (I did make a promise to take my child to 6 flags, when time came, ended up with another sick child could not go).
5. Custodial parent has changed the schedule so much to accomodate the childs sporting events, visitation is constantly interfered. Stepmom picks up for events if dad at work.
I feel alienated and want more involvement in my son's life. It is hard for me to go to his sporting events since I have an autistic son at home then, and 2 young children. My autistic son reacts poorly in crowds and loud noisy events. Do I have any chance to have some say in education and medical needs due to the above situations to win? And can I demand going back to what the court order is for visitation even though after 3 years I have lost time due to this? Thanks, Faith