TinkerBelleLuvr
Senior Member
I'm surprised she was able to leave the hospital with the baby. Generally, CPS takes custody immediately after birth in these circumstances. IF you friends wants to be a daddy, then he should file for custody.
He thought and believed her when she told him the baby was his, he was working as a truck driver over the road at that time and had no reason to think she was cheating on him (besides the fact that my boyfriend told him what kind of person she was).Obviously, not smart.
No, that was fine.He thought and believed her when she told him the baby was his, he was working as a truck driver over the road at that time and had no reason to think she was cheating on him (besides the fact that my boyfriend told him what kind of person she was).
So anyways I called CPS, I told them I was worried about possible child abuse, let them know what she did to my boyfriends daughter (her former stepdaughter) and what the charges were exactly, and all the information I had on her. I chose to remain anonomous (sp?) however, the lady told me there was a chance that the judge may order my named to be released, I didn't want to take a chance of causing any problems for the kids here again either... I told her I was a concerned citizen.. Was this wrong?
And that was a voluntary move on his part and he waived a paternity test. He made the choice. He has to live with it.He signed a paternity affidavit and everything that goes with it. He's on the birth certificate and everything, baby even has his last name.
Yes. BUT!!!!!And that was a voluntary move on his part and he waived a paternity test. He made the choice. He has to live with it.
A paternity test means nothing at this point. Nothing.I don't know what he wants to do in this situation. He can get a paternity test done and prove he's not the father but legally until he does he's her father. I doubt bio daddy is gonna do anything unless mom says something to him, and I doubt she will he already has one of her kids. The lady is crazy anyways. I really don't know what my friend wants to do. When I speak to him again I'm going to advise him to contact CPS asap... that's about the jist of what I can do I believe.
Yes he can.Yes. BUT!!!!!
Heh.
Doesn't that make him legal daddy and unless bio-daddy shows up and files to DISESTABLISH paternity, then LEGAL daddy CAN (and SHOULD) file for custody of the child????
He cannot prove that because a court will not order one just because he changed his mind. HE WAIVED THE RIGHT TO ONE WHEN HE SIGNED THE AOP!I don't know what he wants to do in this situation. He can get a paternity test done and prove he's not the father but legally until he does he's her father. I doubt bio daddy is gonna do anything unless mom says something to him, and I doubt she will he already has one of her kids. The lady is crazy anyways. I really don't know what my friend wants to do. When I speak to him again I'm going to advise him to contact CPS asap... that's about the jist of what I can do I believe.
The whole bit about suing for fraud seems to be cooked up by IndianaDixie, not the "father" in question.And that was a voluntary move on his part and he waived a paternity test. He made the choice. He has to live with it.
Wrong. The rest is up to the father. The legal father. Meaning the one who signed the AOP and is therefore legal daddy and the only thing that changes that is if BIOdad challenges for paternity. Oh and yes CPS enters into it but dad (LEGAL FATHER) will be dragged into court for allowing mom to abuse/endanger/neglect the child.Sorry, I added suing myself.
My last post was about giving dad the benefit of doubt, not slamming you. As of yet he's not trying to get “out” of being her father, just on the fence.
You have done all you can and that little girl. The rest is up to the fathers and CPS.