ProSeDadinMD
Senior Member
Possibly not, but by not being honest about this, it casts a shadow over everything else you say.Been there and seen it all.
Even if I was a relative who is Dads neighbor it wouldn't change to a satisfying answer for you.
I met somebody like that once. Me. Because that’s what you are supposed to do when you are a parent.When you meet someone who has to fight teeth and nails for his kids you will understand one day.
If you have to fight your JOB to see your kids, it’s time for a new employer.You have to fight the law, your X, your job, everything because you want to see your kids and you are given something to stand by and all along their hoping You are the one to screw up, but you dont.
Again, I met somebody like that once…So you wait and when the rope is handed out you pray the other person hangs themselves, after digging their own hole. You dont want a fight but you get pushed and pushed to fight. .
Again, not far from the mark for me(and it's not legally significant, so it doesn't really matter anyway), but none of this helps with your credibility.Your own mother cant be trusted and thinks she deserves to see your kids before you, because your Dad so happened to keep you and your sister from your mom, just as now as your X is doing.
But your Mother plays the devils advocate and has no support. She sees the relationship you have with your father and that plays against you.
I think when you see someone is this position you will understand where I am coming from.
Then again, maybe I’m just feeling litigious today…