ConcerndStepmom
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What is the name of your state? Florida
background if needed. https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=327157
I just wanted to give an update on my Husbands case. I know I got bashed or though what seemed to be bashing in regards to the term I used for Mom. But on a side note that is not and has not been how Mom is addressed in reality. Although the term that was used fits her in every since of the word. As some people call some father's sperm donors. Mom has been nothing more than the incubator<sp> that carried these precious girls in for 9 months. Fast forward.
Monday, January 07, 2008 was their final hearing on the Supplemental Modification of Child Custody and Support petition that my husband's lawyer filed with the courts on his behalf August 28, 2006 not even a year after their divorce was finalized.
What was suppose to be a 2 hour hearing turned into an almost 4 hour hearing. After the substantial amount of evidence (over 150 pics., the last 3 years of daily journals, letter written to and from Mom, Parental Cooridanators report, Behavioral Therapist letter, school reports, letters from daughters teachers and the last 3 years of timesharing calenders with the percentage of time children spent with each parent) the Judge ruled that there had been a substantial change in circumstances and in the best interest of the children to award Permenant Primary Residential Custody to my husband and standard timesharing to Mom. He told Mom that he wasn't giving her an option of paying support that he was ordering her to pay my husband support.
This transition is to take place Sunday, Jaunary 13, 2008 at 5:00p. Dad has not seen his oldest daughter since last Friday until yesterday at his daughter's behavioral therapy appointment. When Mom and his daughter arrived Mom was signing daughter in and his daughter ran over to him and said "I heard the Bad News" and when my husband asked her what bad news was she talking about daughter said "that I won't get to see my mommy no more" he assured her that no was taking her from Mommy and that no one is going to keep her from seeing her Mommy. So with this and Moms previous actions has us wondering what her intensions are going to be. IS or would she really walk out of her daughter's lives? But who knows that bridge will crossed when it gets here. My husband and myself will continue Counseling and Therapy for his oldest daughter who is now 7 and if and when the time comes for his 3 year old if needed.
Although your original thoughts, suggestions and honesty was hard to swallow at first in all honesty was greatly appreciated. I don't do alot of posting and have not posted anything on the case since. I/we have read the site daily. Have learned alot. Definitely has helped alot.
Thanks
background if needed. https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=327157
I just wanted to give an update on my Husbands case. I know I got bashed or though what seemed to be bashing in regards to the term I used for Mom. But on a side note that is not and has not been how Mom is addressed in reality. Although the term that was used fits her in every since of the word. As some people call some father's sperm donors. Mom has been nothing more than the incubator<sp> that carried these precious girls in for 9 months. Fast forward.
Monday, January 07, 2008 was their final hearing on the Supplemental Modification of Child Custody and Support petition that my husband's lawyer filed with the courts on his behalf August 28, 2006 not even a year after their divorce was finalized.
What was suppose to be a 2 hour hearing turned into an almost 4 hour hearing. After the substantial amount of evidence (over 150 pics., the last 3 years of daily journals, letter written to and from Mom, Parental Cooridanators report, Behavioral Therapist letter, school reports, letters from daughters teachers and the last 3 years of timesharing calenders with the percentage of time children spent with each parent) the Judge ruled that there had been a substantial change in circumstances and in the best interest of the children to award Permenant Primary Residential Custody to my husband and standard timesharing to Mom. He told Mom that he wasn't giving her an option of paying support that he was ordering her to pay my husband support.
This transition is to take place Sunday, Jaunary 13, 2008 at 5:00p. Dad has not seen his oldest daughter since last Friday until yesterday at his daughter's behavioral therapy appointment. When Mom and his daughter arrived Mom was signing daughter in and his daughter ran over to him and said "I heard the Bad News" and when my husband asked her what bad news was she talking about daughter said "that I won't get to see my mommy no more" he assured her that no was taking her from Mommy and that no one is going to keep her from seeing her Mommy. So with this and Moms previous actions has us wondering what her intensions are going to be. IS or would she really walk out of her daughter's lives? But who knows that bridge will crossed when it gets here. My husband and myself will continue Counseling and Therapy for his oldest daughter who is now 7 and if and when the time comes for his 3 year old if needed.
Although your original thoughts, suggestions and honesty was hard to swallow at first in all honesty was greatly appreciated. I don't do alot of posting and have not posted anything on the case since. I/we have read the site daily. Have learned alot. Definitely has helped alot.
Thanks