What is the name of your state? NJ
Ok - haven't been for a while but I have two questions and you all have been very helpful in the past so here goes:
1. Just found out about 20 minutes ago from my daughter's teacher that she (teacher) got a letter from stepmother. Tomorrow is parent - teacher conferences. SM wrote that she wants to attend via cell phone conference and has requested additional staff be present. Now I am primary parent, very involved. Father is attending the conference. Can I refuse to allow this to occur??? She wants the speech therapist to attend (who already evaluated my daughter and found her to be developing very normally, which I already said since I am a speech therapist of 22 years, but ex refuses to believe me) and a school counselor who has seen her once and found her to be delightful (her words). Please give me ideas on how to handle this!!!
2. Ex now is giving my daughter the child support checks to hand to me instead of mailing them. I have offered to provide envelopes and stamps but he is refusing stating that daughter should be aware that he pays for her!!! Does anyone know about the child support probation in NJ and how to get on it?? Stealth???
Thanks
Ok - haven't been for a while but I have two questions and you all have been very helpful in the past so here goes:
1. Just found out about 20 minutes ago from my daughter's teacher that she (teacher) got a letter from stepmother. Tomorrow is parent - teacher conferences. SM wrote that she wants to attend via cell phone conference and has requested additional staff be present. Now I am primary parent, very involved. Father is attending the conference. Can I refuse to allow this to occur??? She wants the speech therapist to attend (who already evaluated my daughter and found her to be developing very normally, which I already said since I am a speech therapist of 22 years, but ex refuses to believe me) and a school counselor who has seen her once and found her to be delightful (her words). Please give me ideas on how to handle this!!!
2. Ex now is giving my daughter the child support checks to hand to me instead of mailing them. I have offered to provide envelopes and stamps but he is refusing stating that daughter should be aware that he pays for her!!! Does anyone know about the child support probation in NJ and how to get on it?? Stealth???
Thanks