Mom is threatening friend with statutory rape charges

[Jimballisto]

What is the name of your state? Illinois

My mom just told me today that she saw me and my friend-thing (he's not my boyfriend, but we fool around sometimes) kissing outside my apartment yesterday. I don't know what her problem is, but he's 18 and I'm 16 (female), and the age of consent in Illinois is 17. She says that if I have sex with him, she'll, "Have to take him to court." We haven't gone all the way, as far as penetration goes. But I want to know that if we do end up having sex and she (somehow) finds out and takes it to court, will there be something to try him for? I looked it up and I found these laws for Illinois:

Aggravated sexual assault for sexual penetration by an offender under age 17 with a victim under age 9.

Predatory criminal sexual assault of a child for sexual penetration by an offender age 17 or older and a victim under 13.

Criminal sexual abuse is sexual penetration with (1) an offender under age 17 and a victim between ages 9 and 17 or (2) a victim between ages 13 and 17 and an offender less than five years older.

Aggravated criminal sexual abuse is sexual penetration with a victim between age 13 and 17 by an offender at least five years older.


We could always deny it, but since he's only two years older than me, would the sentence be severe? The state takes into account the age of the offender.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Why are you here since you seem to think you know the answers?

 

[Just Blue]

What is the name of your state? Illinois

My mom just told me today that she saw me and my (he's not my boyfriend, but we fool around sometimes) kissing outside my apartment yesterday. I don't know what her problem is, but he's 18 and I'm 16 (female), and the age of consent in Illinois is 17. She says that if I have sex with him, she'll, "Have to take him to court." We haven't gone all the way, as far as penetration goes. But I want to know that if we do end up having sex and she (somehow) finds out and takes it to court, will there be something to try him for? I looked it up and I found these laws for Illinois:

Aggravated sexual assault for sexual penetration by an offender under age 17 with a victim under age 9.

Predatory criminal sexual assault of a child for sexual penetration by an offender age 17 or older and a victim under 13.

Criminal sexual abuse is sexual penetration with (1) an offender under age 17 and a victim between ages 9 and 17 or (2) a victim between ages 13 and 17 and an offender less than five years older.
Aggravated criminal sexual abuse is sexual penetration with a victim between age 13 and 17 by an offender at least five years older.


We could always deny it, but since he's only two years older than me, would it really be statutory rape?What is the name of your state?

The statute you posted state in clear language that it would be a crime. Is it sooooo important to have sex that you would risk your "friend" going to prison, where he will be repeatedly raped by other inmates, and upon release he would have to register as a sex offender for life? If you just GOTTA have it get a dildo.

This expression is just skanky. Have a little respect for yourself.

friend-thing

 

[Jimballisto]

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Are you serious? I'm extremely unsure and I have a tendency to misinterpret things, so I'd like to have someone else's opinion and advice. She's the kind of mom who will really do something like this. I don't want my friend-thing in trouble because we can't keep it in our pants.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

The statute you posted state in clear language that it would be a crime. Is it sooooo important to have sex that you would risk your "friend" going to prison, where he will be repeatedly raped by other inmates, and upon release he would have to register as a sex offender for life? If you just GOTTA have it get a

dildo.

This expression is just skanky. Have a little respect for yourself.

Ok, Bay, I cannot float in a diaper in the pacific with CC reading this stuff. You must refrain yourself.

 

[Just Blue]

Are you serious? I'm extremely unsure and I have a tendency to misinterpret things, so I'd like to have someone else's opinion and advice. She's the kind of mom who will really do something like this. I don't want my friend-thing in trouble because we can't keep it in our pants.

Go and troll somewhere else.

 

[Jimballisto]

To: baystategirl

Thank you for that. I just wanted to be sure. I /don't/ want to risk him going to prison. That's why I'm asking.

And I won't defend what I call him. "Friend-thing" is my own personal term.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Are you serious? I'm extremely unsure and I have a tendency to misinterpret things, so I'd like to have someone else's opinion and advice. She's the kind of mom who will really do something like this. I don't want my friend-thing in trouble because we can't keep it in our pants.

She is the kind of mom we all like around here. See, you are the kid, and she is the boss.

Can you understand that one?

 

[Just Blue]

Thank you for that. I just wanted to be sure. I /don't/ want to risk him going to prison. That's why I'm asking.

And I won't defend what I call him. "Friend-thing" is my own personal term.

It's skanky. You obviously have no self-respect...That is unfortunate for you, your parents and the poor child you will pop out in the next year or so.

 

[Jimballisto]

It's skanky. You obviously have no self-respect...That is unfortunate for you, your parents and the poor child you will pop out in the next year or so.

I don't see how it's skanky and shows that I have no self-respect. But it doesn't matter. Thank you all for your marvelous advice.