My extended summer visitation...disrupted?

[CourtClerk]

Dude,

If I have to do all of the thinking for you, then I'm going to charge you for it.

1. Send a third party to the appointment
2. Send your wife (a third party) to the appointment and go grocery shopping. Go to the corner store. Go have a cup of coffee at the local starbucks. Go buy your daughter a new outfit at the mall. Go SOMEWHERE until the appointment is over.

 

[CourtClerk]

As an alternative

Forfeit your summer visitation. Never see her again until your probation is up, or your restraining order is lifted or you can figure out there is more than one solution to a problem.

I think this is the answer you wanted to hear:

Your ex is a bad bad woman. You'll never win. You should just forget you have a child because you'll never have your way. This is a problem with absolutely NO solution.

Please pay me my $5 now, and an extra $1.50 if you want me to keep OG out of this thread.

 

[atxdad]

Easier said than done...

that is easier said than done CourtClerk. I love my children and they need their father in their lives. I don't know if you have kids or not and don't get me wrong I'm not tryingto make this a personal issue with you, but imagine not being able to see your kids. Its tough, and I'm not saying she's a bad bad mom. I've never said anything bad about her, yeah she wants to be there too, but she gets to all the time, and now that I have the chance to she wants to take it away. All I want to know is I she shows up and I refuse to leave is she in the wrong, and if worse comes to worse if the police are called what would happen?

 

[Just Blue]

that is easier said than done CourtClerk. I love my children and they need their father in their lives. I don't know if you have kids or not and don't get me wrong I'm not tryingto make this a personal issue with you, but imagine not being able to see your kids. Its tough, and I'm not saying she's a bad bad mom. I've never said anything bad about her, yeah she wants to be there too, but she gets to all the time, and now that I have the chance to she wants to take it away. All I want to know is I she shows up and I refuse to leave is she in the wrong, and if worse comes to worse if the police are called what would happen?[/QUOTE]

You could be arrested.

Edit to add: Actually if your RO is up then you won't be arrested. But you could end up with a probation violation...So same difference. ..Jail.

 

[Humusluvr]

that is easier said than done CourtClerk. I love my children and they need their father in their lives. I don't know if you have kids or not and don't get me wrong I'm not tryingto make this a personal issue with you, but imagine not being able to see your kids. Its tough, and I'm not saying she's a bad bad mom. I've never said anything bad about her, yeah she wants to be there too, but she gets to all the time, and now that I have the chance to she wants to take it away. All I want to know is I she shows up and I refuse to leave is she in the wrong, and if worse comes to worse if the police are called what would happen?

Is the RO really up? If so, what are you worried about?

 

[wileybunch]

Is the RO really up? If so, what are you worried about?

Well, there's more than just a RO (or an expired one), there's also some criminal activity b/c he is on probation and the judge told him to stay away until his probation is fulfilled.

 

[Ohiogal]

here's a little more info to help you out CourtClerk, I do have the ight to be there. You see the protective order itself was up in may 08, so everything was to go back to the original divorcedecree however, the judge advised me not to come in contact until my probation was up, so technically I do have the right to take my daughter to receive healthcare, but then again I can't be around her. I've never had a chance to do this before and now I have that, but then again if she shows up, its ruined, I have to leave I can't even " wait in the car" so how can I keep her from not showing up. The lady in charge of visitation at the domestic relations office said I have he right to reschedule the appointment myself to make sure she doesn't show however I do not wish to deceive anone here....so again how do I do this?

Why are you on probation? Do you have legal custody? If you do not have legal custody you have no right to reschedule any appointment. And mom has a right to show up and be informed of all appointments unless there is a restraining order barring her.

 

[Humusluvr]

Why are you on probation? Do you have legal custody? If you do not have legal custody you have no right to reschedule any appointment. And mom has a right to show up and be informed of all appointments unless there is a restraining order barring her.

OP must not have paid the fee

 

[CourtClerk]

OP must not have paid the fee

I guess not

I don't know what else to tell the OP except for him to terminate his rights. Life is just one big sob story for him. Pathetic. Just pathetic. With any luck, his new wife is the level headed one between the two of them, unless she's buying into this crap too.

I wonder: Does he want to be RIGHT or does he want to see his daughter for the rest of the summer?

 

[Humusluvr]

I wonder: Does he want to be RIGHT or does he want to see his daughter for the rest of the summer?

THAT is the real question. It seems BLARINGLY obvious to me that he take the other choices and just send a third party and get over it and on with his life. Doesn't seem like the hill to die on, but whatever OP.

 

[CourtClerk]

THAT is the real question. It seems BLARINGLY obvious to me that he take the other choices and just send a third party and get over it and on with his life. Doesn't seem like the hill to die on, but whatever OP.

Once again, the only one in this whole entire thing I feel sorry for is the child. Apparently she has a couple of right fighters for parents and that in itself makes them ineffective. On top of that, one of them is a whiny baby. Poor child.