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jsnkwz

Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New York. I have an order of support which requires the father of my son to pay 70% of unpaid medical. He is refusing to pay uncovered dental bills(which are relatively small) because he claims since I do not go to a participating dentist in his or my dental insurance he is not obligated to pay. Is this true?
 


Proserpina

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New York. I have an order of support which requires the father of my son to pay 70% of unpaid medical. He is refusing to pay uncovered dental bills(which are relatively small) because he claims since I do not go to a participating dentist in his or my dental insurance he is not obligated to pay. Is this true?
What exactly does your order say?
 

Isis1

Senior Member
What exactly does your order say?
and ARE you taking the child to doctors that are not covered by dad's medical plan? if yes, then why? and are you taking the child to a dentist not covered in your dental plan? if yes, then why?
 

jsnkwz

Junior Member
What exactly does your order say?
The order does not specify any thing other than I am responsible for 30% and he is responsible for 70%. So I have submitted copies of bills to him and he goes through, figures out what his insurance would have not covered or what the co-pay would have been and will adjust his reimbursement to me. If he sees that this is not a participating doctor according to his plan he claims he spoke with his attorney and is free of payment. This is recently new denials of payments-tho I have not regularly sought reimbursement. I am trying to find out if he can choose what to reimburse and what not to based on his "claim" of what his attorney stated. I do not have an attorney and would have to scrap to obtain one if necessary.
 

jsnkwz

Junior Member
and ARE you taking the child to doctors that are not covered by dad's medical plan? if yes, then why? and are you taking the child to a dentist not covered in your dental plan? if yes, then why?
I am taking my son to the doctors I have taken him to since he was born or nearly close to that. My other son also attends the same doctors. I have chosen my dentist because many years ago she was part of my participating doctors(for nearly 1o years) then I lost my job, went back to school and obtained a new job. My children are very comfortable with this dentist and this dentist submits the claims to both his insurance and mine, leaving us with very small unpaid portions.
 

Isis1

Senior Member
I am taking my son to the doctors I have taken him to since he was born or nearly close to that. My other son also attends the same doctors. I have chosen my dentist because many years ago she was part of my participating doctors(for nearly 1o years) then I lost my job, went back to school and obtained a new job. My children are very comfortable with this dentist and this dentist submits the claims to both his insurance and mine, leaving us with very small unpaid portions.
okay, let's try this again. is that a yes? or a no?

do you have joint legal custody with dad?
 

Just Blue

Senior Member
The order does not specify any thing other than I am responsible for 30% and he is responsible for 70%.
Please read the order word for word.

Do you have sole legal or joint legal custody?
 

jsnkwz

Junior Member
Damn! If I have to pull teeth then I should at least get the laughing gas!!!:p
Sorry, this has all been a very sore subject the last few years. Actually, I know for a fact the problem is not stemming from my son's father but his step-mother telling him, the insurance is in her name and she fights EVERYTHING tooth and nail!!!!

What other information do you need?
 

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