you people are missing the point and it may be my fault for trying to kid about the kilt and scotsman. you want to call it dress up fine did i don a dress for halloween Yeah several other days of the year to. But GM is trashing Me to my kids. I guess because it wasn't something they were going to see anytime soon I didn't think it was a needed learning exspereance. and certainly not a lession learn through biggotry
look, dad. what we are trying to help you with is your children.
we get it. you don't want granny explaining your personal preference.
you have a few options. explain to your children on your own so your children are informed. take the wind out of granny's sails.
take your children to a therapist and have the therapist explain to you what would be approrpriate to explain to children so young about daddy's personal funtime.
you sit down and talk to MOM and agree on not taking the children to granny's house anymore. if mom doesn't agree with it, then this isn't an option for you.
you are going to have to tell the kids sometime. it's best they hear it from you.