Am i in Contempt????

[Just Blue]

Contempt? No-- but...

Do you not realize that YOU are going to look like an unreasonable hosebeast when he tells the judge that he suggested one of YOUR family members and YOU said no??? MOST exes would NEVER suggest ANY family member of the opposing side. He is being MORE than reasonable and will appear to be the good guy in court.

Your mom can say that your child HATES everything about his dad. It won't matter, and in fact-- if it begins to look too much like you are pushing and pushing to not give him visitation, you could LOSE CUSTODY for failure to foster a relationship. IT CAN HAPPEN.

If you keep on your current course, you are going to have to worry about custody---- judges do not like parents who are not fostering a relationship with the NCP.

"Hosebeast"lol!!@

I'm calling K-dar of this one. (op, not MommaBear)

 

[Proserpina]

"Hosebeast"lol!!@

I'm calling K-dar of this one. (op, not MommaBear)

I'm so close to calling troll, too!

Did you read the post hx?

 

[Just Blue]

I'm so close to calling troll, too!

Did you read the post hx?

Yes. That is why I think it's kelly-troll posting.

 

[lilmansmom]

Who's In Trouble?

Well the supervised visit happened. Because my ex had his wife there, which i thought the visit was only supposed to be father and son, not father, son, AND wife. I felt, as a mother, my boyfriend and I needed to be there as well then. (My mom supervised the visit)

Our child did not even want to attend this meeting. My ex's wife's family decides to show up (the meeting was at Mcdonalds) and make comments such as "well doesn't he get to come over and sit by you guys(he was sitting by us)", or "this looks completely unfair to us.".. My mom made sure to write this all down. I plan on letting the judge know this as well. Can I ask for more supervised visits because of this? My ex stated I will get in trouble for being there also but since his wife was I decided we needed to as well. Shouldn't he be the one in trouble for having her family come and make comments?

 

[Just Blue]

Well the supervised visit happened. Because my ex had his wife there, which i thought the visit was only supposed to be father and son, not father, son, AND wife. I felt, as a mother, my boyfriend and I needed to be there as well then. (My mom supervised the visit)

Our child did not even want to attend this meeting. My ex's wife's family decides to show up (the meeting was at Mcdonalds) and make comments such as "well doesn't he get to come over and sit by you guys(he was sitting by us)", or "this looks completely unfair to us.".. My mom made sure to write this all down. I plan on letting the judge know this as well. Can I ask for more supervised visits because of this? My ex stated I will get in trouble for being there also but since his wife was I decided we needed to as well. Shouldn't he be the one in trouble for having her family come and make comments?

What a bad mother you are. I can't wait for the day you lose custody.

 

[Zigner]

You had no right to interfere. Your ex had every right to bring people along with him. It's his visitation time.

Yeah, I'm thinking troll too...

 

[stealth2]

Well the supervised visit happened. Because my ex had his wife there, which i thought the visit was only supposed to be father and son, not father, son, AND wife. I felt, as a mother, my boyfriend and I needed to be there as well then. (My mom supervised the visit)

Our child did not even want to attend this meeting. My ex's wife's family decides to show up (the meeting was at Mcdonalds) and make comments such as "well doesn't he get to come over and sit by you guys(he was sitting by us)", or "this looks completely unfair to us.".. My mom made sure to write this all down. I plan on letting the judge know this as well. Can I ask for more supervised visits because of this? My ex stated I will get in trouble for being there also but since his wife was I decided we needed to as well. Shouldn't he be the one in trouble for having her family come and make comments?

All of you need to grow up. You, him, and everyone else. No wonder the kid doesn't want to go - you ALL made it uncomfortable. Disgusting and reprehensible behavior on all parts. Try actually being a parent and behaving in a manner that's in HIS best interests.

 

[lilmansmom]

What a bad mother you are. I can't wait for the day you lose custody.

this is horrible for anyone to say, i dont know what "troll" means? and I felt as a mother it's not fair. Yes it is his visit so why is he bringing othersa long when it's supposed to be for the child and HIM to grow closer? I dont need the rude comments or remarks I would just like advice on what the judge might favor too since he's also being uncooperative.

 

[lilmansmom]

Contempt? No-- but...

Do you not realize that YOU are going to look like an unreasonable hosebeast when he tells the judge that he suggested one of YOUR family members and YOU said no??? MOST exes would NEVER suggest ANY family member of the opposing side. He is being MORE than reasonable and will appear to be the good guy in court.

Your mom can say that your child HATES everything about his dad. It won't matter, and in fact-- if it begins to look too much like you are pushing and pushing to not give him visitation, you could LOSE CUSTODY for failure to foster a relationship. IT CAN HAPPEN.

If you keep on your current course, you are going to have to worry about custody---- judges do not like parents who are not fostering a relationship with the NCP.

i dont trust my sister because of things she has done and said in the past. Also because my sister's husband doesn't have a clean background, I don't think the judge will approve of their house as well. That's why it should be my mom, our child knows her and she has a clean record.

 

[stealth2]

this is horrible for anyone to say, i dont know what "troll" means? and I felt as a mother it's not fair. Yes it is his visit so why is he bringing othersa long when it's supposed to be for the child and HIM to grow closer? I dont need the rude comments or remarks I would just like advice on what the judge might favor too since he's also being uncooperative.

The judge is going to tell you both to grow up.

 

[Just Blue]

this is horrible for anyone to say, i dont know what "troll" means? and I felt as a mother it's not fair. Yes it is his visit so why is he bringing othersa long when it's supposed to be for the child and HIM to grow closer? I dont need the rude comments or remarks I would just like advice on what the judge might favor too since he's also being uncooperative.

The Judge will likely warn you if you continue to behave like this you will be the NCP. Judge may order a new supervisor. Judge may order that only child, dad, dads family, and supervisor are at visitation.

 

[ProSeDadinMD]

What a bad mother you are. I can't wait for the day you lose custody.

I concur.

TROLL FTW!!!

 

[mistoffolees]

The Judge will likely warn you if you continue to behave like this you will be the NCP. Judge may order a new supervisor. Judge may order that only child, dad, dads family, and supervisor are at visitation.

It is also possible that the judge would order that Dad can have anyone he wishes at the visitation - even a GF if he wishes. It's Dad's visitation time and Mom has no right to interfere.

 

[ecmst12]

Mom should not have even BEEN at the visit. It's DAD's time.

 

[lilmansmom]

It is also possible that the judge would order that Dad can have anyone he wishes at the visitation - even a GF if he wishes. It's Dad's visitation time and Mom has no right to interfere.

The judge already signed the order, my ex needs 3 supervised visits before standard visiattion gets taken into affect. However, because of my mom's statement we are requesting this visitation be supervised for longer, can the judge make another hearing?