he filed contempt?

[txmom512]

Just out of curiosity, and because it pertains to this situation...

What does one do if the agreed-upon supervisor is not available?

 

[stealth2]

Just out of curiosity, and because it pertains to this situation...

What does one do if the agreed-upon supervisor is not available?

One agrees to another supervisor. They had both agreed to her sister. And then... since the ex agreed to her, OP didn't.

 

[txmom512]

Thanks! I don't agree w/ what OP is doing either. I was just curious about what you should normally do in that situation, and figured that would be good information to have out there for anyone else...

 

[Just Blue]

Thanks! I don't agree w/ what OP is doing either. I was just curious about what you should normally do in that situation, and figured that would be good information to have out there for anyone else...

What Dad "should" have done is go back to court and have the Judge have a professional do the supervision. Hopefully Dad has now learned a lesson with this...person...And will make sure the CO is VERY clear. I also hope he has used these threads in his motion.

 

[lilmansmom]

A real Attorney

Well i spoke with an attorney today and my ex will be in trouble for not stating everything. It says to identify exactly what happened and he didn't put exactly what happened just brief with no details. Also he states that i failed to keep communication open with him when in fact i didn't, he has to contact my mother and grandma so there is communication. He will lie under oath and what will the judge say then? This is for all you talkers who like to think what you want when i will win this in court. He isn't helping himself when the judge will get mad at him and order more supervised visits since our child still don't know him and refuses to go with him.

 

[lilmansmom]

What Dad "should" have done is go back to court and have the Judge have a professional do the supervision. Hopefully Dad has now learned a lesson with this...person...And will make sure the CO is VERY clear. I also hope he has used these threads in his motion.

he can't and wont becuase supposedly he only has sundays off and no business will do it on a sunday, thats why my mom has to and because our child only knows my mom and she has a clean background

 

[lilmansmom]

Does dad have an attorney? Do you?

I have given you multiple suggestions on how to decrease your sons anxiety and foster his relationship with his father. You don't want to hear it. I could safely wager money on the fact you didn't even try it.

If you denied your son's father his supervised time, you are in contempt. If it isn't black and white contempt, then what is going to happen is this:

Dad goes to court and says "She didn't have her mom available for my supervised time. I couldn't see my son."

You say "She was working and couldn't be available and he wouldn't agree on anyone else."

The judge says "You are both petulant children. Since you can't make supervised visitation work, father's visitation will be unsupervised from here on out."

See how that worked? You ultimately are screwing things up for your own child with your games.

Oh wait, better yet, you are right. Your ex is a scum. You and you alone are right. Your ex should go away and you should have all the rights. You should be the one to control everything. He should just write you a check and be banned from communicating with you or his child.

There. You heard what you want to hear. Happy now? Good, so go away.

no, becuas ethe whole point of supervised was to get father and son familiar and since it hasnt happened and my son dont want to go with him more supervised visists will be ordered

 

[Proserpina]

no, becuas ethe whole point of supervised was to get father and son familiar and since it hasnt happened and my son dont want to go with him more supervised visists will be ordered

trolololol.

 

[Antigone*]

trolololol.

and a partridge in a pear tree...

 

[Zigner]

no, becuas ethe whole point of supervised was to get father and son familiar and since it hasnt happened and my son dont want to go with him more supervised visists will be ordered

Oh, you already know the outcome. Excellent. We need not go any further!

 

[lilmansmom]

Oh, you already know the outcome. Excellent. We need not go any further!

i just wanted to address this to all of you for youe incosiderate comments and what a REAL attorneys advice does for you

 

[Just Blue]

and a partridge in a pear tree...

Two Turtle Doves****************************

 

[Just Blue]

i just wanted to address this to all of you for youe incosiderate comments and what a REAL attorneys advice does for you

What does it matter? You won't follow the "attorney's" advice either.

 

[lilmansmom]

What does it matter? You won't follow the "attorney's" advice either.

he's telling me my ex is pretty much screwed so ya i think i will

 

[Proserpina]

he's telling me my ex is pretty much screwed so ya i think i will

Liar liar pants on fire!