Verbal Abuse

[TheGeekess]

no i'm not jealous of her but this needs to be between me and him he doesn't need to be bothering my mom and grandma when they are working and his wife doesnt need to be answering his phon everytime i call its between us not her

Then WHY oh WHY in your many threads (and his) are YOU REFUSING to give him YOUR NUMBER?? YOU are the one who TOLD HIM to CALL your MOTHER if he needed to.

lilmansmom lilmansmom is online now
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he filed contempt?
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

I had to reschedule my ex's supervised visit again because my mom (his supervisor) couldn't get the time off work. I have also been getting many restricted phone calls which I believe are either his "wife" doing or he is doing it so i changed my number and didn't give him it. He states in the court papers he can't ever get a hold of me but i have his number so how could that get me in trouble if i can contact him? He also has my mom and grandma's number if it was really an emergency. How can he put me in contempt if my mom couldn't get off work and because i am getting restricted calls and changed my number?

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/he-filed-contempt-567921.html

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new issues
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

i cant unlock my other post our child FINALLY told my ex yesterday that he was afraid of him. Ex called me which he isnt supposed to and asked to have him for thanksgiving (got it documented because i told him he needs to contact my mom for all future discussions) finally our child told him he didnt want to be alone with him and that he didnt want to be around him because of his "wife". he hasnt finished all his supervised visits but i offered he come alone to my family house and spend thanksgiving with him that way. he refused. now my child knows his unsupervised visits are coming up and hes getting really depressed and angry his grades have dropped dramatically. he wont stay the entire time, is there anything i can do to prevent this? this man is already terrifing him and is creating a lot of stress can i do anything? no rude comments just advice

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/new-issues-567447.html

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Unfit Parent
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

I was recently informed and have witnessed that me ex's "other" child was attacked by their pit bull. The "other" child had his entire left side of face ripped apart. I have filed a sheriff report to make sure the child is safe and being properly taken care of, my question is can this be held against him in court? I see that the child was or was supposed to be in "their care" when this happened and look! I feel my childs safety would be put at risk of it happening to him. Since I already filed a sheriff report, i have that documented as well. This is something extremely serious especially because i was told the "other" child needed reconstructive surgery with how bad the attack was. I am concerned about my childs safety if he is supposed to start getting him.

Also i believe he had a "fake" person call my phone restricted pretending to be someone from the courthouse. They pretended to yell at me and continued to talk about the visits. I then went up to the court house so i can talk to this "person" and guess what! nobody knew what i was talking about. I did have someone write a letter from the court house stating this. This has created a problem for us and I have cut all communication with my ex, he now has to go through my mother for everything. Can I present this as well?

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/unfit-parent-567368.html


https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/need-help-565360.html

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/contempt-court-566364.html

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/am-i-contempt-566110.html

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/counseling-issues-566798.html

 

[Silverplum]

"Jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire."
Solomon Ibn Gabirol

ya i called her for HIS REAL PHONE NUMBER, shes creating unnesserary problems and the reason our son dont want to go around them. everyone has seen it and thats why i am getting statemements shes the reason we will be going back to court

 

[Nevergrowup]

I'd like to be head cheerleader for the squad cheering for you to lose custody.

You are completely ridiculous. I don't like dad either but he is better than you...

 

[jbowman]

ya i called her for HIS REAL PHONE NUMBER, shes creating unnesserary problems and the reason our son dont want to go around them. everyone has seen it and thats why i am getting statemements shes the reason we will be going back to court

Ok so youre NOT pressing charges. You are just trying to take this in front of a judge and youre going to say "i called her and now she keeps.... ANSWERING".

 

[Antigone*]

Hey Justalurker!!!

 

[Just Blue]

Hey Justalurker!!!

Justalurker is "not a FA employee".

 

[Antigone*]

Justalurker is "not a FA employee".

I didn't say he was. I was just saying hello this the lurker.

 

[lilmansmom]

Then WHY oh WHY in your many threads (and his) are YOU REFUSING to give him YOUR NUMBER?? YOU are the one who TOLD HIM to CALL your MOTHER if he needed to.


https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/he-filed-contempt-567921.html


https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/new-issues-567447.html


https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/unfit-parent-567368.html


https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/need-help-565360.html

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/contempt-court-566364.html

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/am-i-contempt-566110.html

https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/counseling-issues-566798.html

Ya but my mom told him she's at work he needed to leave her alone and he kept texting her and bothering her. i changed my number because of the restricted calls im getting. and im not jealous of her i have my boyfriend and other kids now i dont need anything from them its our son im worried about bc he doesnt want to go with him an cant stand his "wife"

 

[Zigner]

Then WHY oh WHY in your many threads (and his) are YOU REFUSING to give him YOUR NUMBER?? YOU are the one who TOLD HIM to CALL your MOTHER if he needed to.

Please don't feed the troll.

 

[Proserpina]

Ok so youre NOT pressing charges. You are just trying to take this in front of a judge and youre going to say "i called her and now she keeps.... ANSWERING".

I just ell oh elled at this.

 

[lilmansmom]

Ok so youre NOT pressing charges. You are just trying to take this in front of a judge and youre going to say "i called her and now she keeps.... ANSWERING".

i am pressing charges for harrassment. She keeps answering HIS SUPPOSED PHONE when i call to talk about his visits. she has nothing to do with this and she is answering his phone instead of him answering. i called her work to ask for his REAL number and thats when the argument happened. no im taking him to court bc this is causing to many problems

 

[Zigner]

i am pressing charges for harrassment.

I just CAN'T resist...it's like a delicious cookie.

YOU aren't being harassed.

 

[Proserpina]

i am pressing charges for harrassment. She keeps answering HIS SUPPOSED PHONE when i call to talk about his visits. she has nothing to do with this and she is answering his phone instead of him answering. i called her work to ask for his REAL number and thats when the argument happened. no im taking him to court bc this is causing to many problems

Trololololol.

I'm going to say Hi, John.

 

[lilmansmom]

I'd like to be head cheerleader for the squad cheering for you to lose custody.

You are completely ridiculous. I don't like dad either but he is better than you...

they cant take away custody they need to prove im an unfit parent and im not

 

[Nevergrowup]

i am pressing charges for harrassment. She keeps answering HIS SUPPOSED PHONE when i call to talk about his visits. she has nothing to do with this and she is answering his phone instead of him answering. i called her work to ask for his REAL number and thats when the argument happened. no im taking him to court bc this is causing to many problems

You called HER at work and you are pressing charges against HER? You are hilarious.

By the way, you aren't taking him to court...he is already taking YOU, for contempt, and although I'm not Dad's biggest fan I hope the judge nails you to the wall for your ridiculous games.

Not that you care, because you are a terrible mother...but you are HURTING YOUR SON BY YOUR BEHAVIOR.