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[lilmansmom]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

This is also just to advise you all that the judge did find me in contempt but didn't do anything other than stopping the supervised visits and proceeding with his standard visitations. When i told our 7 year old son what happened and what he will be forced to start doing he broke down crying and is scared. i am deeply concerned for our child. since this has all happened it has caused nothing but problems for our child... vomiting nausea headaches depression anxiety counseling etc...my ex called and asked where we are going to meet for his first visit but our child DOES NOT want to go with him. 1st question. Can he legally grab our child out of my car and take him when our child refuses? 2nd question. He said he plans on having a sheriff or police officer there for civil stand by but i was told they cannot do anything also?

 

[TheGeekess]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

This is also just to advise you all that the judge did find me in contempt but didn't do anything other than stopping the supervised visits and proceeding with his standard visitations. When i told our 7 year old son what happened and what he will be forced to start doing he broke down crying and is scared. i am deeply concerned for our child. since this has all happened it has caused nothing but problems for our child... vomiting nausea headaches depression anxiety counseling etc...my ex called and asked where we are going to meet for his first visit but our child DOES NOT want to go with him. 1st question. Can he legally grab our child out of my car and take him when our child refuses? 2nd question. He said he plans on having a sheriff or police officer there for civil stand by but i was told they cannot do anything also?

Continue feeding Junior whatever horror stories you've telling about Dad to make Junior react this way and you will risk losing custody.

Get Junior into counseling.

Troll.

 

[stealth2]

Sigh... Not you again...

I would like to know EXACTLY what you said to your son. Frankly, keep on with what you're doing. Your son will be in a stable home with his Dad soon enough if you do.

 

[lilmansmom]

Continue feeding Junior whatever horror stories you've telling about Dad to make Junior react this way and you will risk losing custody.

Get Junior into counseling.

Troll.

he is in counseling already.., and you didnt answer my questions

 

[lilmansmom]

Sigh... Not you again...

I would like to know EXACTLY what you said to your son. Frankly, keep on with what you're doing. Your son will be in a stable home with his Dad soon enough if you do.

i have not told anything to my son he is a smart boy and sees on his own and knows what has been going on. again, that didn't answer any of my questions and the judge has not said anything about custody, thanks!

 

[stealth2]

i have not told anything to my son

You lie.

When i told our 7 year old son what happened and what he will be forced to start doing he broke down crying and is scared.

So, again - WHAT did you say to him?

 

[lilmansmom]

You lie.



So, again - WHAT did you say to him?

no i dont lie to my children.... all i said to him was that he was going to be having to go with his dad (dad's name) now.... now can u answer my questions

 

[stealth2]

no i dont lie to my children.... all i said to him was that he was going to be having to go with his dad (dad's name) now.... now can u answer my questions

You lie to us. And we choose what we answer - you don't demand.

 

[lilmansmom]

You lie to us. And we choose what we answer - you don't demand.

no i have not lied once to any of you.....

 

[stealth2]

no i have not lied once to any of you.....

I quoted where you did in this thread. Go pay for a lawyer.

 

[ecmst12]

Yes, he can physically pick the child up and take him when it's his parenting time, if the child won't go willingly. Of course, if you have done your job properly, the child won't refuse anything. He's a child, sometimes he will have to do things he doesn't want to do, that's life. He may not want to eat his broccoli or take a bath either, but he has to because you tell him to. Visiting his dad is no different.

 

[lilmansmom]

Yes, he can physically pick the child up and take him when it's his parenting time, if the child won't go willingly. Of course, if you have done your job properly, the child won't refuse anything. He's a child, sometimes he will have to do things he doesn't want to do, that's life. He may not want to eat his broccoli or take a bath either, but he has to because you tell him to. Visiting his dad is no different.

Eating his broccoli or taking a bath is completely different.. those things are the best interest for him. Going with a complete stranger knowing this fear has created anxiety and depression and the illnesses its affecting is not the best interest for him. i will not let a "stranger" whom my son does not know physically pick up my child and take him away... maternal instincts

 

[stealth2]

Eating his broccoli or taking a bath is completely different.. those things are the best interest for him. Going with a complete stranger knowing this fear has created anxiety and depression and the illnesses its affecting is not the best interest for him. i will not let a "stranger" whom my son does not know physically pick up my child and take him away... maternal instincts

He is NOT a stranger! Your son KNOWS him.

 

[lilmansmom]

He is NOT a stranger! Your son KNOWS him.

I fail to agree on taht... he DOES NOT know him.. he only knows OF him. If he knew him,.. he would have no problem going freely and would not be having these many problems

 

[stealth2]

I fail to agree on taht... he DOES NOT know him.. he only knows OF him. If he knew him,.. he would have no problem going freely and would not be having these many problems

And again, you are lying. Your son has met him, more than once. He knows who he is. He is NOT a stranger. If you had not interfered with the ordered visitation, he would know him better. Which is why you were found in contempt. And while the judge may not have said it? Continue interfering and you may be packing your son to go live with his Dad. Time for you to get with the program the judge has ORDERED you to follow.