computer_guy
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Wisconsin
I am the boyfriend of the mother of a young female child. The mother too the father to court and the court commissioner wrote in his response that it is advised that they continue with the alternating weekend placement.
Because of history of odd happenings with the child and the fathers history the mother and I are fearful that he is sexually abusing their child in common. Certain circumstances that strengthen this, is the fathers compulsion to bath the child when specifically asked not to, the child's report of being coerced into sleeping in the same bed with him and getting bodily fluids on the child (the child claims it was sweat, origin of fluid undetermined), the child describing the shape of the fathers penis, drawings of penis's at school and the child's inability to inform any one of where this knowledge was received. However when speaking with the child about the differences between boys and girls she stated the obvious. When describing what made her and her father different she described how his butt hung down "like this" then made hand gesture with her arm extended up and down with her hand halved open.
Because of other situations in the past I was viewing the fathers ebay account, one of his recent purchases was a book by Ray Garton, Shackled. This book goes into explicit detail of child molestation, child torture, child abduction, underground sexual deviancy, brainwashing of children used for sexual encounters, and satanic rituals involving children. An editorial review on the Barnes and Nobel website wrote "Only readers devoted to detailed scenes of child torture, amateurish writing and offensive language will be hooked by this." I find this statement very scary with the things that have gone on.
The mother of the child works for a homeless shelter specializing in domestic abuse and attempting to receive help from the sources there. The mother and I met with the fathers probation officer (alcohol related) to seek help from them and place a no contact between the father and mother. The mother reported her concerns to Child Protective Services. I attempted assistance with the local authorities and spoke with the chief of police and addressed my concerns. The child is seeing a professional counselor and the counselor said that she did not have enough evidence to pursue a case regarding abuse.
The Mother was advised to tell the father that the child was sick or being take to a family event. It is her grandmothers birthday this weekend, and she was going to take the child out of the county for that reason and to use it to avoid the child from being alone with her father. The father's mother as the 3rd party for the no contacted transferred a message demanding that she gives the child over to them this weekend.
CPS has not called back and stated whether or not this will be looked into. The mother does not want to surrender her child to the father this weekend but is fearful of legal repercussion. The mother is absolutely fearful that the father has already molested her to some point, it is evident that the father has exposed himself to the child. I am personally fearful with the fathers aggression towards the mother and myself, and the fathers sexual history with the mother, that the father is going to take a more sinister carnal interest in the child and act upon it. If this happens I am absolutely terrified per the child's reaction and the fathers inability to control himself that he would murder the child in a panic.
Help is needed in this, and every resource we've tried has been a stonewall until there is absolute documented evidence of abuse. As the child becomes older more things surface, such as her father throwing her into the bedroom wall. The child is too young to understand sex, and inappropriateness especially from her father. No legal authority is stepping up to this, I understand the local authorities position on why they can not intervene at this time. The probation officer refuses to assist because of the reason of which she was appointed to the father, though her demeanor changed completely after the mother stated his interest in an artist that depicts his subjects in bondage and rape like situations with beasts and demons.
Edit: while I wrote this the mother was going into her work to research with people who are more familiar with situations of this nature.
I am the boyfriend of the mother of a young female child. The mother too the father to court and the court commissioner wrote in his response that it is advised that they continue with the alternating weekend placement.
Because of history of odd happenings with the child and the fathers history the mother and I are fearful that he is sexually abusing their child in common. Certain circumstances that strengthen this, is the fathers compulsion to bath the child when specifically asked not to, the child's report of being coerced into sleeping in the same bed with him and getting bodily fluids on the child (the child claims it was sweat, origin of fluid undetermined), the child describing the shape of the fathers penis, drawings of penis's at school and the child's inability to inform any one of where this knowledge was received. However when speaking with the child about the differences between boys and girls she stated the obvious. When describing what made her and her father different she described how his butt hung down "like this" then made hand gesture with her arm extended up and down with her hand halved open.
Because of other situations in the past I was viewing the fathers ebay account, one of his recent purchases was a book by Ray Garton, Shackled. This book goes into explicit detail of child molestation, child torture, child abduction, underground sexual deviancy, brainwashing of children used for sexual encounters, and satanic rituals involving children. An editorial review on the Barnes and Nobel website wrote "Only readers devoted to detailed scenes of child torture, amateurish writing and offensive language will be hooked by this." I find this statement very scary with the things that have gone on.
The mother of the child works for a homeless shelter specializing in domestic abuse and attempting to receive help from the sources there. The mother and I met with the fathers probation officer (alcohol related) to seek help from them and place a no contact between the father and mother. The mother reported her concerns to Child Protective Services. I attempted assistance with the local authorities and spoke with the chief of police and addressed my concerns. The child is seeing a professional counselor and the counselor said that she did not have enough evidence to pursue a case regarding abuse.
The Mother was advised to tell the father that the child was sick or being take to a family event. It is her grandmothers birthday this weekend, and she was going to take the child out of the county for that reason and to use it to avoid the child from being alone with her father. The father's mother as the 3rd party for the no contacted transferred a message demanding that she gives the child over to them this weekend.
CPS has not called back and stated whether or not this will be looked into. The mother does not want to surrender her child to the father this weekend but is fearful of legal repercussion. The mother is absolutely fearful that the father has already molested her to some point, it is evident that the father has exposed himself to the child. I am personally fearful with the fathers aggression towards the mother and myself, and the fathers sexual history with the mother, that the father is going to take a more sinister carnal interest in the child and act upon it. If this happens I am absolutely terrified per the child's reaction and the fathers inability to control himself that he would murder the child in a panic.
Help is needed in this, and every resource we've tried has been a stonewall until there is absolute documented evidence of abuse. As the child becomes older more things surface, such as her father throwing her into the bedroom wall. The child is too young to understand sex, and inappropriateness especially from her father. No legal authority is stepping up to this, I understand the local authorities position on why they can not intervene at this time. The probation officer refuses to assist because of the reason of which she was appointed to the father, though her demeanor changed completely after the mother stated his interest in an artist that depicts his subjects in bondage and rape like situations with beasts and demons.
Edit: while I wrote this the mother was going into her work to research with people who are more familiar with situations of this nature.
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