Am I in Contempt?

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

The issue is that mom made a unilateral decision without communicating with dad. Doesn't matter really if this was NOT a minor issue or an emergency.

Now, with that said, you have stated that there are communication issues between you and mom. I have you a legal remedy to the problem. Co-parent counseling or a parenting coordinator.

 

[CCN1000]

If it goes to court, ask for co-parenting counseling; you BOTH need it. This is a control game.

What needs to happen at this point is to COMMUNICATE with mom over the issue. Either agree with a decision before hand, or plan on going to court.

Or ask for a parenting coordinator who will have final say so.

I would love to communicate, but she wants all the control all of the time. We are only to respond via email and her reply comments are always about her bringing me to court. I have been in supposid contempt of court on 3 seperate occasions with her and I have won all of them. The court currently sees her as a irrational individual. I have asked her MULTIPLE times, that we need to discuss ALL health issues prior to havign them done (aside from emergencies) and she HAS NOT done this. I have 50/50 custody of them and should be a part of all health decisions

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

I would love to communicate, but she wants all the control all of the time. We are only to respond via email and her reply comments are always about her bringing me to court. I have been in supposid contempt of court on 3 seperate occasions with her and I have won all of them. The court currently sees her as a irrational individual. I have asked her MULTIPLE times, that we need to discuss ALL health issues prior to havign them done (aside from emergencies) and she HAS NOT done this. I have 50/50 custody of them and should be a part of all health decisions

I will say this for the THIRD time:

Have the courts order co-parent counseling and/ or get a parenting coordinator.

 

[Ohiogal]

$50 says if you ask the doc, the doc will say "I recommend you follow the CDC guidelines for vaccinating your children". Did you ask?

Why would he ask that? It might prove that he is wrong and the doctor will recommend it which means he would DEFINITELY be in contempt.

 

[CCN1000]

$50 says if you ask the doc, the doc will say "I recommend you follow the CDC guidelines for vaccinating your children". Did you ask?

Already asked him the day of the vaccination appointment and now have an email from him stating that my ex-wife called his office and asked for the vaccine to be given to our 3 children. He also stated in this letter, that he is not opposed to the vaccine, but did not recommend it to her.

 

[Ohiogal]

The issue is that mom made a unilateral decision without communicating with dad. Doesn't matter really if this was NOT a minor issue or an emergency.

Now, with that said, you have stated that there are communication issues between you and mom. I have you a legal remedy to the problem. Co-parent counseling or a parenting coordinator.

ourfamilywizard.com or sharekids.com also are good.

 

[OHRoadwarrior]

I go with OP. There is no reason to subject the girls to potential long term reactions. Everyone here is acting like the vaccine prevents all HPV, When it actually only affects a few strains. Statistically, if you have had sex with more than 4 people, you have come into contact with some form of HPV. I think the child has the right to request or nix the risk of their future health in this situation. My spouse and daughter feel the same.

 

[Ohiogal]

Already asked him the day of the vaccination appointment and now have an email from him stating that my ex-wife called his office and asked for the vaccine to be given to our 3 children. He also stated in this letter, that he is not opposed to the vaccine, but did not recommend it to her.

Did you ask him if he WOULD recommend it for the children?

 

[CCN1000]

ourfamilywizard.com or sharekids.com also are good.

I have begged and pleaded for the past 10 years that we need to go to parent counseling due to the damage that it is causing the children, but she refuses to go. She says that she wants to teach her children how to act around people they hate. (Nice right)

By the way that she acts, you would of thought that I did something bad to her, but I did not. All I did was divorce her because we had been in consuling for 8 out of the 15 years we were married and all I wanted was for her to be someone that I could have a conversation with, like a friend. She chose to keep her nose in the romance novels and away from her kids.

When the childre were born, I sold my business to be a stay at home dad since she made more money than I did. Me leaving was not in her "PLAN", so as you can imagine, she became quite angry. All I care about is the emotional and physical health of my children. I will fight for their safety until the day that I die.

 

[CCN1000]

I go with OP. There is no reason to subject the girls to potential long term reactions. Everyone here is acting like the vaccine prevents all HPV, When it actually only affects a few strains. Statistically, if you have had sex with more than 4 people, you have come into contact with some form of HPV. I think the child has the right to request or nix the risk of their future health in this situation. My spouse and daughter feel the same.

Thank you.

You are exactly right which I forgot to mention that fact: Researchers have identified 100 different strains of HPV, 40 of which can infect the anal and genital areas. Only 4 of those strains are useful for protecting (NOT PREVENTING) against acquiring HPV.

 

[Zigner]

Maybe you work for a pharmaceutical company (though I doubt it)...

Even pharmaceutical companies need janitors.

 

[CCN1000]

Did you ask him if he WOULD recommend it for the children?

Why do I care if he would or not. It makes NO difference. As I stated previously, he DID NOT recommend it. Just because a doctor tells you that you should do something does not mean that you should do it. We all have the choice to make our own educated decision based on the facts.

 

[eerelations]

This isn't about whether vaccines are good or bad or indifferent, this is about whether or not OP will be found in contempt of his divorce decree.

OP will be found in contempt because the decree says nothing whatsoever about one parent having to consult with the other parent about upcoming medical procedures. All the decree says that one or both parents will do whatever health care professionals recommend. Period.

(And how OP or anyone else can conclude that CDC members aren't health care professionals, I don't know. This reasoning is beyond me. Finally, there is no way that OP works for a pharmaceutical company and conducts clinical trials, if that were the case he would never have made that remark connecting vaccines to autism. OP is a liar. He's not trying to protect his "precious" children, he's just trying to hassle his ex-wife - punish her for having the nerve to dump him. OP, she divorced you. It's over. Stop acting like a spoiled brat and get over it.)

 

[CCN1000]

Even pharmaceutical companies need janitors.

I love how people talk nasty when they are not infront of people. Feel sorry for you.

And yes they all janitors, so I will call facilities and see if they have any openings for you

 

[Zigner]

Just because a doctor tells you that you should do something does not mean that you should do it.

Per your court order, yes it does.