Lien on joint account

[Just Blue]

Yeah yeah yeah... A lot of people owe back child support and it doesn't mean you're a deadbeat. $3000 is actually not that much to owe in the scheme of things. He's didn't mean for this to happen and he is already going to pay me back with the money he gets from his school grants next month. That money is supposed to be for his school though and I am still wondering if there is a way to get the money back. I am looking for an answer from someone who actually knows what JTWROS means.... Thank you.

Based JUST on this post, I believe you should hire an attorney for your charming self. Perhaps if the Attorney is willing to delve into State or Federal grants s/he would be willing to do it for free.

 

[ecmst12]

A person who loses their job can file for a modification. If they just ignore the problem, the arrears only get bigger, they don't go away.

Anyway, none of that matters. The money is gone and you are not getting it back. Learn for the future, don't let him put his name on your money.

 

[Antigone*]

AND, BK will not absolve the dead beat from future child support obligations, seeing as he is now current.

 

[ecmst12]

Pretty sure that CS obligations can't be discharged in BK under any circumstances anyway.

 

[sherrie1984]

Silverplum... Wow! You are actually right about something! Amazing! Yes, I haven't told them. I haven't felt the need to being how I mentioned already, I am not looking for emotional support/help. That is the reason I am on here... Looking for legal help, No one in my family or my circle of friends are lawyers. Trust me, it's not something I would try and hide from them.

Thanks for all your lovely "advice" anyways. Here is some advice for you... Next time you come across a question/thread you don't know the answer to, maybe you should just move on to the next.

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[sandyclaus]

Silverplum... Wow! You are actually right about something! Amazing! Yes, I haven't told them. I haven't felt the need to being how I mentioned already, I am not looking for emotional support/help. That is the reason I am on here... Looking for legal help, No one in my family or my circle of friends are lawyers. Trust me, it's not something I would try and hide from them.

Thanks for all your lovely "advice" anyways. Here is some advice for you... Next time you come across a question/thread you don't know the answer to, maybe you should just move on to the next.

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And next time you are looking for advice on how to support your deadbeat boyfriend's attempts to get everyone else to pay for his child support obligations, you should move on to the next... forum, seeing as how you feel that none of the information we provided you is applicable or relevant to you.

Of course, I can see a new post here in your future - one asking us how to legally force your boyfriend to pay you back the money that got taken from your joint account to pay for his child support obligation. I can practically guarantee you aren't going to see that money come back to you anytime in the near future...

 

[sherrie1984]

Thanks to anyone who actually tried to help me and answer my questions. I have good news! I talked to child support recovery and they said that they would be able to get back at least half of the money as long as I am able to send in proof of any deposits that came from me and a bank statement along with it. This will not be a problem. Here is my predicament now... The woman also informed me that if I were to just have him pay me back himself, the court/judge would prob be a lot nicer/more lenient at his next hearing which is in October. This is his hearing to try and have his payments lowered since he is no longer employed and is a full time student now. Ugh... Don't know what to do about this. Don't worry everybody... This is a question I will take up with my family and friends. Thanks.

 

[sherrie1984]

Sorry Silverplum.... Wrong again.
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[Silverplum]

Silverplum... Wow! You are actually right about something!

Of course I am.

Amazing!

Not really, but you don't know me and therefore are surprised.

Yes, I haven't told them.

I know.

I haven't felt the need to being how I mentioned already, I am not looking for emotional support/help.

Good thing, because that's not what we do here.

That is the reason I am on here... Looking for legal help, No one in my family or my circle of friends are lawyers.

I find that unsurprising.

Trust me, it's not something I would try and hide from them.

Call them now. Tell them everything. You have all night to make calls.



You won't, till you and Mr. Wrong break up (sooner rather than later). Then you will tell anyone who will listen about what a heel he was.

Thanks for all your lovely "advice" anyways. Here is some advice for you... Next time you come across a question/thread you don't know the answer to, maybe you should just move on to the next.

I was 100% correct.

 

[TheGeekess]

Thanks to anyone who actually tried to help me and answer my questions. I have good news! I talked to child support recovery and they said that they would be able to get back at least half of the money as long as I am able to send in proof of any deposits that came from me and a bank statement along with it. This will not be a problem. Here is my predicament now... The woman also informed me that if I were to just have him pay me back himself, the court/judge would prob be a lot nicer/more lenient at his next hearing which is in October. This is his hearing to try and have his payments lowered since he is no longer employed and is a full time student now. Ugh... Don't know what to do about this. Don't worry everybody... This is a question I will take up with my family and friends. Thanks.

Alrighty then.

 

[Silverplum]

Thanks to anyone who actually tried to help me and answer my questions. I have good news! I talked to child support recovery and they said that they would be able to get back at least half of the money as long as I am able to send in proof of any deposits that came from me and a bank statement along with it. This will not be a problem. Here is my predicament now... The woman also informed me that if I were to just have him pay me back himself, the court/judge would prob be a lot nicer/more lenient at his next hearing which is in October. This is his hearing to try and have his payments lowered since he is no longer employed and is a full time student now. Ugh... Don't know what to do about this. Don't worry everybody... This is a question I will take up with my family and friends. Thanks.

Don't worry about us: we're not worried about you.

 

[sandyclaus]

Thanks to anyone who actually tried to help me and answer my questions. I have good news! I talked to child support recovery and they said that they would be able to get back at least half of the money as long as I am able to send in proof of any deposits that came from me and a bank statement along with it. This will not be a problem. Here is my predicament now... The woman also informed me that if I were to just have him pay me back himself, the court/judge would prob be a lot nicer/more lenient at his next hearing which is in October. This is his hearing to try and have his payments lowered since he is no longer employed and is a full time student now. Ugh... Don't know what to do about this. Don't worry everybody... This is a question I will take up with my family and friends. Thanks.

I fear that your boyfriend will be sadly disappointed in the results of his request to decrease that child support.

Since he is CHOOSING to be underemployed or unemployed in order to attend school full-time, the court CAN and probably WILL impute a wage according to his last wage earned prior to starting his full-time school schedule. The courts frown on deadbeat parents choosing to voluntarily lower their income to avoid their child support obligations. As a parent, he doesn't have the luxury of making that decision over supporting the children he brought into this world.

And isn't that lovely how he decides to stop working, and can no longer afford to pay for that child support himself - and you claim he plans to use the financial aid he's receiving for school to do just that (i.e., reimburse you for the child support he can no longer afford to pay). I'm sorry, but the money we taxpayers put into funding for financial aid isn't intended to pay to support his children, either - especially when he is able to earn that money for himself by having a job.

 

[sandyclaus]

Don't worry about us: we're not worried about you.

I worry about the child who has to ultimately deal with his dad's compromised integrity and lack of financial support.