Please sit down, take a deep breath and try to calm yourself.And refusing to administer the child's prescribed medication is doing your child no favors - mom was absolutely right to take steps to make sure she would get her meds at school.
I must of missed the part where OP said he refused to administer the child's meds. Although I did see where OP said his ex lied and said he refused.
Whether YOU have ADHD or not, it seems her doctors have diagnosed her with it.
It was my impression that the child had yet to be diagnosed on mom's say so to the kindergarden teacher.
Refusing to acknowlege or treat her problems won't make them go away, it just makes you a craptastic parent.
How can OP refuse to acknowledge a problem that hasn't been determined to be a problem?
Your first post showed everyone all you REALLY care about (how much support you're paying).
Yes dear, you're right.Given the OP has not answered OG's important and relevant questions, we really don't know who lied about what. We only know what OP has shared with us. I'm waiting for the answers.
Of course I am.Yes dear, you're right.
So how often have you been in contact with the teacher? The child's psychiatrist? The nurse at the child's school? The child's doctors? How many times have you asked to meet with them or see your child's records? How involved have you been?[/QUOTE
I know the teacher well. I know the doctors well enough to tell them the false accuastions are not true...and they say they should have known. I attend the parent teacher conferences. I see the progress reports. I ask questions to teacher, doctor, tutorer, etc. I met the school nurse and defended my self....at which point the doctor called the school nurse and said she made a mistake assuming the mother was tellign the truth
she hasn't been diagonsed with anything. Her mother is a border line personality...Please sit down, take a deep breath and try to calm yourself.
i thoight i had been resonding. I've been involved every step of the way ohiogal. right down to speaking directly to the teacher, the doctors, and the childs peers. all of which have told that i'm the devil. the child hasn't been diagonsed with anything. i do give medications. and my ex is a borderline personalty i suspect....Are people to assume that if someone is paying too much support, they shouldn't care at all about that or speak about it?
Do as you say, not as you do?i thoight i had been resonding. I've been involved every step of the way ohiogal. right down to speaking directly to the teacher, the doctors, and the childs peers. all of which have told that i'm the devil. the child hasn't been diagonsed with anything. i do give medications. and my ex is a borderline personalty i suspect....
Twice.she hasn't been diagonsed with anything. Her mother is a border line personality...
You suspect mom is borderline personality and mom suspects you are ADHD. YOu are a hypocrite or don't you realize that?i thoight i had been resonding. I've been involved every step of the way ohiogal. right down to speaking directly to the teacher, the doctors, and the childs peers. all of which have told that i'm the devil. the child hasn't been diagonsed with anything. i do give medications. and my ex is a borderline personalty i suspect....
Good luck to you. I am out.wrll im sorry you think that ohio girl. one of the maib characteristics of a borderline is a false sense of reality. generated to trick the in experienced. they're also super smart along with add and adhd behaviors. hence her popping zyanax daily. i'm a realist, thats for sure. i have experience with her behsviors and several marriage counsolors along with the therapist my 5 yr old sees to generate a conclusion. im not a pro, but this latest "lashing out" and pointing a fakse accusation of a nedical record is consistent with her behaviors. wr divorced in '09, my daughter wasnt even two. i played nice since then waiting for her to hang herself. i think shes on her way...
wrll im sorry you think that ohio girl. one of the maib characteristics of a borderline is a false sense of reality. generated to trick the in experienced. they're also super smart along with add and adhd behaviors. hence her popping zyanax daily. i'm a realist, thats for sure. i have experience with her behsviors and several marriage counsolors along with the therapist my 5 yr old sees to generate a conclusion. im not a pro, but this latest "lashing out" and pointing a fakse accusation of a nedical record is consistent with her behaviors. wr divorced in '09, my daughter wasnt even two. i played nice since then waiting for her to hang herself. i think shes on her way...
I can tell you're not a psychologist/psychiatrist.and, zyanx daily to cope. if you take all the traits of what i described or suggested it must be brutal. its like a pressure cooker with her when shes off. like a sweet innocent victim, yrs they pkay the victim too, when on.