I am not an attorney (thank God). And I do not appreciate being called an idiot. If you do not have anything nice or relevant to this discussion, please refrain from saying anything. I don't piss on your yard.
*I* provide the food. Most of the time I cook it too (as she doesn't even know how to cook anything but macaroni and cheese). What does your statement about food have do do with this conversation at all? Simple fact is; if she doesn't have anything to contribute to the relationship or the household finances, she doesn't need to be there any longer. I am not here to provide a free ride for her, so that she can go out and "do" anybody she pleases.