not2cleverRed
Obvious Observer
In fact, under the old paperwork, such information was asked for explicitly. (They've been changing things.)I would make sure that the agency has your ex's info. Share the joy. BTW...It's the agency going after you...not DD. State wants to get some of the money they are payng out on DD back. Once the chid is born and paternity is established BF will be ordered to pay for the child.
There are times that I wish forced birth control was an option...almost. sigh....
So she's not following rules - what else is new?
You should be getting child support from her and dad (once paternity is established). https://www.childsupport.ny.gov/dcse/home.html