OK, thanks guys for all the replies. Maybe, I should just abandon ship. I really do not think she was drinking this time but the driving and taking the risk was a huge mistake, esp. now in hindsight. Her rationale was I will only drive into town to buy food and to Lowes for home improvement supplies and I will never drink and drive again + she said I will drive very defensively. I do not live with her. I am about an hour away from her. I have to take care of my elderly mother, but I was supporting her financially and going to see her as much as possible. We have essentially a long distance relationship ATM. She lives out in the Country also so the nearest grocery store is at least 10 miles away. Ugh!
You need to take care of yourself first.
You have put yourself in a precarious position, in part out of your loyalty to someone who doesn't appreciate it. If you weren't helping her out financially, you might not need a replacement bank card, ss card, and greencard.
The conditions of her parole were that she be on good behavior, and she violated it several different ways.
Do you think the police officer would actually call the eyewitness into court to testify. MY GF said she might plead guilty to the driving while suspended but not to the DUI / less safe charge? If she accepts the driving while suspended, they will still get her for the driving while declared - HV (F). See image below of charges. Thanks for all your replies--
If she admits to driving while suspended, her refusal of the blood test will count against her.
Please, do not give another dime to this thoughtless woman! Let her retain her own criminal lawyer. If that means she has a public defender, than so be it.
