My wife of 8 years filled for divorce in Nov. 2017 and I was served at work, we went to court in Dec. But agreed to work on things. As far as I knew that's what we were doing, but in Oct. 2018 she filled again and in Nov she went to court and hid everything that came in the mail for me about it. Instead of serving me again her lawyer decided to send certified mail, knowing my work schedule so each time it came I never knew. In April this year she finally told me after I sensed something was wrong and told her to just tell me, this whole time we lived together and she has the decree which I have not seen yet and is at her parents, whom I know had something to do with everything, even paying for her lawyer. She will be moving out beginning of June with my daughter to her parents and everyday I am expected not to question any of it and I feel like I'm being stabbed in the heart every morning I wake up and see her. I am trying not to do anything I might regret and keep my focus at work I do still love her very much. I have not been able to find any similar situations for advice and I'm just looking for ideas for where to go from here. If it is helps I live in Texas.