Ok, you can only seek contempt of court if she clearly violated an existing court order regarding custody and visitation. The fact that you got status quo orders indicates that there was no prior visitation order. If there was no prior visitation order then she is not in contempt of a court order. In that case, you'll have to wait for the upcoming hearing. Your lawyer can explain to you the process and what your options are.
I cant get a lawyer. No money for one, her parents got her one. I have no money for one and cannot even afford the Modest Means program from the state Bar. Legal Aid MIGHT be able to help but if not, I have NO WAY to get one and right now I cant even get one to do any thoe of free consult so O can ask these questions and at least have a nearong. The fact that it is served and was approved and has MY address as the status quo residence that SHE abruptly took him out of never to reaturn. She had been violating my right to see him and his right to see me. Now that it is served she is in aviation of impeding the other parent, me, from contacting and seeing him. She also recuses to go over any major decisions with me as she is supposed to do such as what she is doing with him for starting school. He had developmental assessments that she as told me nothing about. While know what other decisions she is making unilaterally!!!! She is also selling items when it says NOT to.
Please understand that if you convince a judge to have her evaluated you will have to be evaluated as well. Its also very expensive for both of you.
Parental alienation is a real thing that courts recognize, and its not limited to one gender or the other. Anything labeled as a "syndrome" is going to make you look bad. If you said malicious parent syndrome instead of malicious mother syndrome it might not make you look as bad, but it would be better if you didn't say it at all.
In this instance you appear to be blaming her lack of meds for her current issues. If you cry parental alienation on top of that you diminish your argument that her lack of meds are the problem.
They can send me to the same psych evaluation, I will pass. But I honestly dont see that happening because she is the one with the preexisting diagnosis and she is the one refusing to ever take made again and refusing to see the dr about it. The reason I am wanting the evaluation is on the ground that she is making outlandish claims the are not consistent and has a very distorted view of when is vs how it really is. I know she wont have any proof for any negative claims she may make but if the judge wants to take anytiing from it even though she has the burden of proof, I am going to HAVE to make a motion for evaluation to see if she is capable of even recalling things that happend. She has accused me of or told me things about me that her brain may feel it happend that way but it did not. She has told me I said things I never have. I want her diagnosed and medicated mot because I am vindictive, bit because I love and care for her and our son deserves the mother he had up until the last couples days in July. I am so fear she slips into a depression and if she feels she is getting ganged up on and cornered either leave the state with him or worse yet pull a "ifni cant have him, nobody can" type thing. I want my wife back. NOT this persona that has taken over. 2 weeks after out son was born, I had to do a battery of tests with a psychiatrist because my file she would have been able to see was gone. Treatment provider state and.by stateaw had to shed all client files. That is good for 5 years, there is another year on it and that should suffice my side. But again, I have no diagnosed mental imbablance.
