If you are there in person they can look at your ID and look at you. And you are right about the notary being able to do that. Have you explored that option?
Proving my identity was never an issue. See below. The school exposes students to many privacy abusers (Facebook, Twitter, CloudFlare, Microsoft, Google, etc), so there is no real likeliness of the school taking data protection that seriously.
There's only one of us not being realistic here.
It's unrealistic to claim that anything less than an in-person appearance is insufficient for the purpose of obtaining high school transcripts. It's absurd. It's bizarre that you believe (for example) that a notarized, signed passport would be insufficient for protecting that kind of data. Data with much higher sensitivity (e.g. someone's credit report) needs nothing more than a snail-mailed letter with a social security number -- not even photo ID.
Not only is it absurdly unrealistic to have that expectation -- it's not even the school policy. This only came up in this thread b/c someone speculated that ID proof is the problem. I didn't go into all the details (which would fill pages), but proving ID was never an issue. The issue is form of payment:
Taxing Matters said:
34 CFR § 99.10(d). When copies are provided the school may charge a reasonable fee for it.
Bingo- this is where the problem is. The school demanded payment in the form of a *money order*. A money order cannot be purchased anywhere online. Students must walk into a bank or post office on US soil to get one. Getting a US money order is impossible overseas. I could have sent a bill-pay check because those services are available online, but the school would not accept a check of any kind (not even a cashiers check). The school also refused to accept cash in the mail. It had to be a money order, thus discriminating against students no longer residing on US soil.
So even more relevant is 34 CFR § 99.11(a), which
states:
(a) Unless the imposition of a fee effectively prevents a
parent or
eligible student from exercising the right to inspect and review the student's
education records, an
educational agency or institution may charge a fee for a copy of an education
record which is made for the
parent or
eligible student.
So by forcing money order to be the payment instrument, the school is breaking the law.