My wife and her son

[Zigner]

Question: If she's rightfully entitled to wire marital funds to her son, do I have the right to do the same and wire money to anyone I like so there's no money on the account anymore? That way I don't put "an end on it". I just do what she does.

Legally speaking, the money is yours just as much as it's hers.
Logically speaking - get a divorce.

 

[stealth2]

Question: If she's rightfully entitled to wire marital funds to her son, do I have the right to do the same and wire money to anyone I like so there's no money on the account anymore? That way I don't put "an end on it". I just do what she does.

That really is childish. You file for divorce, you show that she has been dissipating marital funds, ask that those funds be included in her equitable share of assets. Don't play games.

 

[Ohiogal]

Diss

That really is childish. You file for divorce, you show that she has been dissipating marital funds, ask that those funds be included in her equitable share of assets. Don't play games.

Dissipating marital funds may not apply to that money when it comes to divorce.

 

[stealth2]

Diss

Dissipating marital funds may not apply to that money when it comes to divorce.

Fair enough.

 

[stealth2]

OP really would be best off in speaking with a divorce attorney rather than playing games...

 

[clri000]

That really is childish. You file for divorce, you show that she has been dissipating marital funds, ask that those funds be included in her equitable share of assets. Don't play games.

I didn't say I've done that. I was merely asking you a question.

 

[bcr229]

How long has it been since your wife left?

 

[clri000]

How long has it been since your wife left?

A month or two? But meanwhile she came back. Even she has a hard time living with a 'bull' (her words).

 

[clri000]

My marriage went the same way when my son became an addict and a criminal and my ex enabled him.

My advice: YOU file for divorce. Get a jump on her and get out. Take whatever lumps come your way. You'll survive and recover. I did.

Otherwise nothing changes and you'll sink further and further into the morass of despair.

So what became of her? ... or both?

 

[not2cleverRed]

So what became of her? ... or both?

She, as AJ said, became ex-Mrs. AJ. AJ is well-adjusted now.

Does it really matter what became of the ex?