Lookforward
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We are in the midst of resolving our child custody issue which, to be honest with you is not going well either.It's something you should thing about addressing in your divorce settlement.
I think you really should focus on the whole picture, and the kids should be at the center of that. I have no idea of what the debate on that issue is, but you look up what are considered somewhat standard parenting plans are in your area, and what will be in the best interest of the children.
Both parents should support children. I suspect that your custody dispute is feeding/contributing to the other dispute(s).
P.S. Post divorce you should update your will. Consider who you want to entrust with the kids$ until they are adults, should the worst happen. You might prefer a sibling over your STBX.
STBX demands on the child custody issue are not realistic at all.
I am not sure if I would leave the money to any siblings or stbx i would create trust and leave it for the kids.
One thing I have learned from my ongoing divorce is not to trust anyone and never get married again but that's just me.