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     Pregnant from affair - paternity/custody questions

     Why would you give up 50K? Is that because you feel guilty? Is giving up a significant amount of money in the best interest of your children? Have you considered the possibility that you will be paying child support for your twins to their father? Have you looked into how much daycare will cost...

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #65
     • Mar 18, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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     CPS documentation

     I have been where you are - my ex has/had pretty much unlimited financial backing too. And he has threatened to litigate me into bankruptcy. Still my filter has been and continues to be BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN. So, again, focus on the best interest of the children first. Keeping the kids...

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #14
     • Mar 18, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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     CPS documentation

     If you are really concerned about your child's well-being, then concentrate on her safety, and worry about the medical bills and tax implications later. You want to be sure that there is no way to imply your actions are about money before DD's well being.

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #9
     • Mar 16, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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     Pregnant from affair - paternity/custody questions

     My humblest apologies to Ohiogal.

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #25
     • Mar 15, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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     Pregnant from affair - paternity/custody questions

     If you really want to encourage the other man to go to his wife cease all communication with him.

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #21
     • Mar 15, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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     Pregnant from affair - paternity/custody questions

     Ohiogal did not say they won't have a mother. Ohiogal has spent his career defending the best interest of children in divorces. He is suggesting that your children may be better off if Dad is the custodial parent and you have visitation. Granted, we know nothing about your husband, but we do...

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #20
     • Mar 15, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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     Pregnant from affair - paternity/custody questions

     You are correct, but right now she is pregnant and needs to take care of herself to protect the babies she is carrying and work with a lawyer to understand her exit strategy and find out what she can expect financially from the divorce, if she will be receiving or paying alimony or child...

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #17
     • Mar 15, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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     Pregnant from affair - paternity/custody questions

     I've been in your paramour's wife's position. And what he is doing is continuing to violate her trust. And if he'll do it to her, he'll do it to you.

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #10
     • Mar 15, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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     Pregnant from affair - paternity/custody questions

     The only useful things you can do now are trying to have a healthy pregnancy, speaking with a lawyer, and getting into counseling.

     • AlmostThere
     • Post #9
     • Mar 15, 2021
     • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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      Divorce and owning properties together

      There are many potential issues with the scenario you are describing. What if the properties begin to lose money? What if neither of your children wishes to or is capable of managing income properties? What if you or your soon-to-be ex run into hard times? Who is responsible for the upkeep of...

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #6
      • Mar 15, 2021
      • Forum: Divorce, Separation & Annulment
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      How to answer?

      Unless it is an emergency where I cannot text or email, ie, I am en route to the ER with our mutual child, I do not pick up the phone and call my ex. Actually, despite many ER runs with that child, I have only had to call him once en route. Every other time he has been informed via messaging. We...

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #23
      • Mar 10, 2021
      • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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      How to answer?

      Since your ex is concerned about communication issues, and the nature of the communications about disagreements, you should ask that all communications occur in writing. You could possibly use OurFamilyWizard or a similar application. FWIW - one of the best post-divorce communication decisions...

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #19
      • Mar 9, 2021
      • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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      Child insurance issue

      Because one parent should not be disallowed or disincentivized to provide appropriate medical care or have to ask permission to take the common child to the doctor.

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #13
      • Feb 28, 2021
      • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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      Filing Divorce where parties agree

      The more detailed your divorce decree is in terms of child support, custody, and visitation the better it is for all involved. I know you are hoping your husband will walk away from your common children, but just because he did it once does not mean he will do it again. Plus, child support...

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #15
      • Dec 21, 2020
      • Forum: Divorce, Separation & Annulment
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      Qdro

      Did your contract with your divorce attorney spell out that your QDRO would be handled under whatever fee structure that was agreed upon?

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #3
      • Nov 3, 2020
      • Forum: Alimony & Spousal Support
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      Refund of security deposit/never moved in

      Did she sign a contract? Does the contract say anything about handicapped accessibility? It also sounds as if your friend needs someone as her financial conservator. While stepping in to help her is admirable, it is clear that your current family situation is taking up too much of your...

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #7
      • Oct 23, 2020
      • Forum: Landlord / Tenant Issues
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      Landlord selling property during COVID — photography, tours, expenses?

      Please keep in mind that selling the property does not necessarily mean that you will need to move. Rental properties are sometimes sold with the tenants in place. It costs a lot less for a new landlord to keep the current tenants than to freshen up the property to be rented again after existing...

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #13
      • Oct 19, 2020
      • Forum: Landlord / Tenant Issues
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      Weird situation, common law wife of 20 years, how split in divorce.

      Since you are very concerned about how much you stand to lose financially in a divorce, perhaps you should seek marital counseling to try to improve your situation. And if she won't go, go on your own. Also, hiring a cleaning service to come in every week or so is a lot less expensive than a...

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #23
      • Apr 6, 2020
      • Forum: Divorce, Separation & Annulment
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      refuse to go back

      While you are looking into legal remedies, your son needs counseling.

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #7
      • Apr 1, 2020
      • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation
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      tx picking up child policy

      If you order says you drop off at the mom's residence, that that is what you do. It's pretty unreasonable for you to decide with 15 minutes notice she should pick up your daughter.

      • AlmostThere
      • Post #7
      • Feb 12, 2020
      • Forum: Child Custody & Visitation