5 children

[brenau]

All 5 children are under the age of 7.

Yes, I do believe she refused to let him see them.

She'd leave the kids at home with her husband while she went out to get pregnant again.

Why he kept sleeping with her, idk.

 

[jbowman]

All 5 children are under the age of 7.

Yes, I do believe she refused to let him see them.

She'd leave the kids at home with her husband while she went out to get pregnant again.

Why he kept sleeping with her, idk.

If he never filed to visitation, thus establishing paternity, mom had absolutely no duty to let him see the kids. He ADMITS paternity and you STILL call the children "alleged"? Wow, youre pretty lame.

 

[Farfalla]

How long ago (what year) did she divorce her husband?

Has the husband been legally, in court, eliminated as the father of these children?

 

[brenau]

He only openly admits to being the father of the first two. The other three he says he's not sure about, she was exactly around much, but he admits they could be. And like I said in my previous post, he did try to establish paternity.

And as far as I know, she is still married to her husband. I have a case number with ****** County that shows DNA was performed on the husband. So I imagine, yes he's been eliminated in court. Trying to read the court notes is like reading another language for me. I just don't understand how she's trying to get child support when DCF has them. Will he have to pay her child support when DCF has them?

 

[Humusluvr]

If he never filed to visitation, thus establishing paternity, mom had absolutely no duty to let him see the kids. He ADMITS paternity and you STILL call the children "alleged"? Wow, youre pretty lame.

And what is unimaginable to me is that she just showed up to "do" the dad 5 times (or more), and that he never said, "I can see that you are pregnant. Is this child mine?" If she said yes - why didn't he want to see the kid? If she said no - why didn't he say, "I won't sleep with someone prego with another man's baby."

Your dude kept sleeping with her because he's either stupid or a walking erection, both of which do not equate well with YOU making another baby with him.

There's something to be said for vasectomies.....

 

[LdiJ]

He only openly admits to being the father of the first two. The other three he says he's not sure about, she was exactly around much, but he admits they could be. And like I said in my previous post, he did try to establish paternity.

And as far as I know, she is still married to her husband. I have a case number with ****** County that shows DNA was performed on the husband. So I imagine, yes he's been eliminated in court. Trying to read the court notes is like reading another language for me. I just don't understand how she's trying to get child support when DCF has them. Will he have to pay her child support when DCF has them?

Its probably DCF that wants the support. They will divert it from the mother to the state, as long as the state has them.

 

[CourtClerk]

Well, I wasn't expecting the presumptions and judging.

So YOU'RE what's in the Epcot bubble then huh? I've always wondered who lives in there. What did you think was going to happen when you wrote this garbage? You've got to be what lives in the bubble.

In any event,

To the poster who said he never made an attempt to establish paternity, he in FACT has. He had a lawyer on retainer who advised him he'd have a difficult and expensive case to prove the children were his since the mother was married and had her husband sign the birth certificates.

So I guess since it was going to be so expensive, he decided to just roll over (on top of her no less) and continue to make babies. I see, your boyfriend likes to take the cheap route. What does that say about you then? Come on, think about it. If he won't spend money on his CHILDREN who need to have a relationship with their FATHER... then I guess it's only beneficial if he's getting some. Yeah, that's called prostitution where I come from.

He obviously couldn't be there for the birth of the chidlren because she didn't tell them they were being born so he could sign the certificates and claim paternity at the hospitial.

He can't claim paternity at the hospital because he kept doing a MARRIED WOMAN. He needed to stop screwing her at the mo-mo and start screwing her in court.

He hasn't had anything to do with the children because she REFUSED to allow him to see them, not because he didn't want to. And he has supported them at one point, he gave her cash for years up until she started to refuse him to see them.

That was cash for her services.... support you pay regardless.

Why he continued to have children with her is beyond me, I for one am not going to judge.

Wait, wasn't it YOU that started this thread talking about her "moral character???" When did you stop judging? When we started in on you and prince charming? NOW you are not going to judge? I'm going to let you in on a little secret. EVERYONE judges, including you. If you don't believe me, go back and read your first post. It's FULL of judgments... only it's about the mother of your loser boyfriend's 5 children. You'd rather not judge him, because then you'd have to admit you're just a bit of a moron for having anything to do with him. Whatever makes you feel better though.

She told him for years she was leaving her husband, even left him at one point.

One, the other 4 though... hey, he got some nookie (and a baby)

It's really not the point now. He says if she sue's for custody, he'll finally be able to get custody, which is something he has always wanted, it's not just something he wants because it's "diping in his pocket."

Oh, it's EXACTLY because someone is dipping in his pocket. What happened to it being too expensive to establish paternity? Did it get cheaper? Is CSE giving a buy 2 get 3 free coupon on paternity tests? Are the courts in your county giving out free custody establishment days? Oh wait... his attorney is taking this on pro bono???? He hit the lottery? Powerball? Other than they are going after him for SUPPORT ($$$$$) what made him get his ass in gear all of a sudden??

*Please take off the rose colored glasses before answering and take the cotton out of your brain.

 

[Humusluvr]

Brenau, are you pregnant?

 

[Isis1]

Brenau, are you pregnant?

***crosses fingers****

 

[brenau]

His lawyer told him he didn't have a case because she was married, and another man was on the birth certificates. What else was he suppose to do? I don't know I'm not the lawyer, what it would have cost wasn't the only issue.

This is the first time he's ever had an opportunity to prove those kids are his.

No, I'm not pregnant.

 

[mmmagique]

Brenau,

What kind of money does this guy make? My fiance is a doctor twice over and a professor, and there is NO WAY we would be in any position to take care of SIX (or five or four) kids, and still have any quality of life.

If you decide to marry this guy, look forward to a life of drudgery playing mama to rugrats who aren't even yours, and will probably not be grateful to you for doing so.

You also REALLY need a reality check. So, this guy kept boinking this married lady year after year after year, and she kept ending up pregnant, and she is a druggie? I don't believe that someone who wasn't either also on drugs, an alcoholic, or had serious mental issues would continue in such a vile relationship.

And quite honestly, I have to wonder about you, as well...is this REALLY the best you think you can do? Don't you think you deserve better than someone who has thrown not only his own life, but his childrens' as well, down the commode?

Marry him if you must, but for your own sake, and that of your future children, PLEASE don't make babies with this guy. You will regret it. (I speak from experience!)

~Christina

 

[majomom1]

Brenau,

What kind of money does this guy make? My fiance is a doctor twice over and a professor, and there is NO WAY we would be in any position to take care of SIX (or five or four) kids, and still have any quality of life.

If you decide to marry this guy, look forward to a life of drudgery playing mama to rugrats who aren't even yours, and will probably not be grateful to you for doing so.

You also REALLY need a reality check. So, this guy kept boinking this married lady year after year after year, and she kept ending up pregnant, and she is a druggie? I don't believe that someone who wasn't either also on drugs, an alcoholic, or had serious mental issues would continue in such a vile relationship.

And quite honestly, I have to wonder about you, as well...is this REALLY the best you think you can do? Don't you think you deserve better than someone who has thrown not only his own life, but his childrens' as well, down the commode?

Marry him if you must, but for your own sake, and that of your future children, PLEASE don't make babies with this guy. You will regret it. (I speak from experience!)

~Christina

I sure hope you are not a SM, or a Mom for that matter. If you are I can maybe understand why they are ungrateful!

 

[CourtClerk]

I sure hope you are not a SM, or a Mom for that matter. If you are I can maybe understand why they are ungrateful!

Co-sign!!!!!!

 

[LdiJ]

I sure hope you are not a SM, or a Mom for that matter. If you are I can maybe understand why they are ungrateful!

I think that you misunderstood her a little...she was being very blunt to get a point across to the OP....and its a very valid one.

If he is the father of these children, and DCFS doesn't give them back to mom, he could very well end up with custody. Its darned difficult to suddenly become a caretaker of 5 children, particularly children born to an apparently drug addicted mother....add a new baby on top of that, and the relationship is headed for serious trouble.

She needs to be very certain that she can handle things for the long haul, before she ties herself to him for the rest of her life.

 

[CourtClerk]

I think that you misunderstood her a little...she was being very blunt to get a point across to the OP....and its a very valid one.

If he is the father of these children, and DCFS doesn't give them back to mom, he could very well end up with custody. Its darned difficult to suddenly become a caretaker of 5 children, particularly children born to an apparently drug addicted mother....add a new baby on top of that, and the relationship is headed for serious trouble.

She needs to be very certain that she can handle things for the long haul, before she ties herself to him for the rest of her life.

Don't worry Ld. The OP has it all under control. Dad has been spited and lied to the whole way through. As soon as he gets the kids and they can raise the children properly, the world will be nothing but sunshine, because mom is a horrible person and dad just got a raw deal.

The OP is different and she'll prove it to EVERYONE.