Absolutely frustrated and could use some opinions...

[LdiJ]

Shouldn't she respond at least once to clarify to the grandparents that her understanding of what the judge said was that they could pick up child(ren) on the exes Friday and that it is her understanding that they are not allowed to pick up the child(ren) on her time, or just anytime they please?

She could do that. She doesn't have to. However if she does I wouldn't word it the way that you did.

"The judge gave you the right to pick up the child on the Friday of dad's weekends. The judge did not and could not give you any right to pick up the child on any of my time."

 

[gr8rn]

She could do that. She doesn't have to. However if she does I wouldn't word it the way that you did.

"The judge gave you the right to pick up the child on the Friday of dad's weekends. The judge did not and could not give you any right to pick up the child on any of my time."

perfectly articulated.

 

[Raisingmaddy]

Thanks to all of you. I have been going back and forth in my mind about calling them. I would prefer not to call them, if they continue to call and leave messages this way they are recorded for our protection.

I absolutely can NOT believe they are taking things this far. They have been horrible beyond belief in the past, but this is shocking to me.

I will definitely let everyone know what happens with a written order. It's just frightening that they think they have this power...

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

If you write any notes, keep it short and sweet. The same for any conversations. Practice if needed.